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insecurity or instinct? RED FLAGS EVERYWHERE!


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It's ok to have trust issues. But this isn't irrational suspicions. He's obviously lying and hiding things from you. You either confront him or just leave him. His behavior is unacceptable in a serious relationship.

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Make a fake facebook and add him :p Obviously he will deny it if you ask him if he has someone on the side. Just an idea... or just get rid of him.

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Yeah don't worry I'm taking your advice :laugh:

 

He texted me today: 'i will try to find time to call today or tomorrow, but it's hard to have privacy at work and i might be too tired when i'm at home'

 

all I thought was: BULLLLLLLLL SHHHHHHHH**************

 

:laugh::laugh::laugh::laugh::laugh::laugh::laugh:

 

I have not replied.

 

And nor shall I be.

 

 

:o:o:o:o:o WHO THE HELL DOES HE THINK HE IS... Does he think you are stupid or something. Pretty sure he thinks he can just do whatever he wants with you. You show him :laugh:

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Hello everyone

 

I just wanted to say thanks so much for taking the time to post on this thread.

 

I have now broken up with this man, and one of the things which kept me strong in my mind and certain that it was the right thing was remembering all the people on here telling me that I was not crazy for having these doubts, and to trust my instinct.

 

It was hard, and I feel sad, but I know its the right thing.

 

I want to try and get to a point where if there is ever a next time when a man tries to justify his own behaviour by blaming me, I will notice! Hopefully there won't be a next time...

 

But either way, THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU.

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Yay! Way to be strong.

 

What a washy washy dude. I'd have ended it at 'doesn't like dogs'. Congrats!

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