fluffy84 Posted February 9, 2014 Posted February 9, 2014 I'm just gonna get straight to the point. Here are the lists of things I observed. Please read the list and tell me if I should tell this boy how I feel. Thanks. I'll answer yours. 1) I would make eyes contact with his co-worker and my intuition told me, he was staring at me. When I turned to him, he just looks down. (happen twice) He even put a smile face on my receipt. I wish it was his phone# instead 2) I was standing in line looking at the menu and in the corner of my eye; I saw that he was surprised to see me. He even stared for a few second. I was too nervous to look his direction. 3) When we are face to face, he never looks at me while taking my order. However, with his other customers, he took the initiative to make eyes contact. 4) He was fidgeting trying to give me my change (money) and I could see his hand shaking as he placed the money in my hand. 5) I saw him checking me out but when I look at him, he averted his glance. Twice! I was so close to catching his second glance but he averted that glance so fast. 6) I said Hi to him and he said Hi with a smile but I was too nervous to look at him so I walked away like a fool. 3 Months after I said Hi to him, as I was exiting Costco, he entered and we walked right by each other. 2 days after that incident, as I was walking to my car, something told me to turn around and he was behind me. Still, I was too scare to talk to him and kept walking. What a coincidence to have ran into him. Or maybe he saw me and try to be at the same place I was? In addition, I saw him on the phone during his lunch break so my assumption is he is talking to a girl? I'm so confused and I don't know what to do. I can’t talk to him in person or in private cause Costco tires center is ALWAYS busy. Is it ok to leave him a note in an envelope telling him how I feel? I can’t hold it in anymore. Also, I feel stupid for being shy and nervous around him cause I'm not young. I'm 29 and I should have more confidence.
kjackson1 Posted February 9, 2014 Posted February 9, 2014 Gather the cojones to put your number on a piece of paper and when you walk up to him just say something casual like I'd like to get to know you, here is my number call me. Or whatever you feel comfortable with. What is the worse thing that could happen. Go for it! 1
Tayken Posted February 9, 2014 Posted February 9, 2014 29 is still kind of young in relationship terms... This sounds like some kind of puppy love...... A girl/guy should never tell each other ..."I have a crush on you", you might live to regret it if the other person decides to take advantage of that comment Now you can let your actions discretely show how you feel initially, but don't go all out at the start. Just go for it, but subliminally....hey Joe, I have seen you checking me out, and all you have to do is ask me out and may be I'll consider it. LOL Obviously you know you want him too
d0nnivain Posted February 9, 2014 Posted February 9, 2014 No you should not tell him you have a crush on him, especially using those words. If you fancy him, talk to him. Ask if he'd like to join you for a coffee or drink sometime
crederer Posted February 10, 2014 Posted February 10, 2014 Yea, if you like him let it be known. I've recently found out many women had a crush on me but I was too effing clueless to notice. My life would have been quite different if I did. If he doesn't like you back, it's not going to be that bad. You'll be rejected then move on to the next guy. But I honestly doubt that;ll be the case based on your post.
Author fluffy84 Posted February 11, 2014 Author Posted February 11, 2014 I read this post and just wish the girl was talking about me.. and the answer is YES. Some guys are shy mainly because girls are bitches. Just step up. If your name start with the letter "B" and you work at Costco than Yes, this is for you. hahah
Author fluffy84 Posted February 11, 2014 Author Posted February 11, 2014 Yea, if you like him let it be known. I've recently found out many women had a crush on me but I was too effing clueless to notice. My life would have been quite different if I did. If he doesn't like you back, it's not going to be that bad. You'll be rejected then move on to the next guy. But I honestly doubt that;ll be the case based on your post. Ok I'll go tell him and hopefully it is good news for me.
Noproblem Posted February 11, 2014 Posted February 11, 2014 Yeah, what a nice story..... Good luck, he probably has a girlfriend like the rest of these guys who keep us hanging to their sensitive mood But try why not, worst case scenario you start shopping at another cosco branch!
LEEVIT2F8 Posted February 11, 2014 Posted February 11, 2014 Do you have any common friends? Facebook requests can do wonders to show your interested. And also open some doors for chat. 1
Author fluffy84 Posted February 12, 2014 Author Posted February 12, 2014 Yeah, what a nice story..... Good luck, he probably has a girlfriend like the rest of these guys who keep us hanging to their sensitive mood But try why not, worst case scenario you start shopping at another cosco branch! Your right! worst case scenario he'll just tell me he's not interested or have a gf. He is worth the rejection hahha 1
Author fluffy84 Posted February 12, 2014 Author Posted February 12, 2014 Do you have any common friends? Facebook requests can do wonders to show your interested. And also open some doors for chat. None at all. This is just a customer, employee situation. I would have to ask him myself or try to make friends with his employer to get to him.
fifipheebs Posted February 12, 2014 Posted February 12, 2014 have you ever seen him at the store with a girl or he usually alone? i would imagine if he had a gf, that eventually she would come to store with him. i like what the first poster said about writing your number or email down on paper and handing it to him.
Author fluffy84 Posted February 12, 2014 Author Posted February 12, 2014 have you ever seen him at the store with a girl or he usually alone? i would imagine if he had a gf, that eventually she would come to store with him. i like what the first poster said about writing your number or email down on paper and handing it to him. He work at Costco and I'm the customer who like to go there and see him but don't have the balls to talk to him. GF? Not sure, but I saw him on the phone with someone during his lunch break so my assumption is he have a gf.
Author fluffy84 Posted February 12, 2014 Author Posted February 12, 2014 Gather the cojones to put your number on a piece of paper and when you walk up to him just say something casual like I'd like to get to know you, here is my number call me. Or whatever you feel comfortable with. What is the worse thing that could happen. Go for it! I actually wrote my number down on a piece of paper and I was going to give it to him but he was off. I guess is not meant to be. His co-worker told me to come back on tuesday.
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