nickgroce Posted February 9, 2014 Posted February 9, 2014 my co worker told me about how my grlfriend's brother asked her on a date over facebook i told my girlfriend and this is how it went me: my co worker amy said jake asked her out on a date gf: huh what? me: he messaged her saying hey my favorite applebes employee, you are really nice and cute. how about i take you to dinner gf: what did she say me: she said no she wasn't interested gf: oh me: yea i told her he was a nice guy and she agreed she just isnt interested,i had to tell you i thought it was funny gf: um ok me: or is it not? gf: ahah so funny me: oh ok , guess not gf: im kind of pissed the way she acted me: why? gf: she acted like a ***** about it. she should feel honored he asked her me: yea i mean she wasn't mean, i just thought it was crazy he did. i didnt think he really would gf: yea i guess does it sound like she is really mad about it?
Grumpybutfun Posted February 9, 2014 Posted February 9, 2014 Ok, let me see if I understand? You told your gf that some chick was asked out by her brother and you laughed about it when he was rejected. She tells you she thinks the girl was a bitch about it and she should feel honored because her brother had the nerve to ask something so personal and was rejected and you insist that this chick who isn't your gf wasn't being mean about it. Is this about it? G
Author nickgroce Posted February 9, 2014 Author Posted February 9, 2014 Ok, let me see if I understand? You told your gf that some chick was asked out by her brother and you laughed about it when he was rejected. She tells you she thinks the girl was a bitch about it and she should feel honored because her brother had the nerve to ask something so personal and was rejected and you insist that this chick who isn't your gf wasn't being mean about it. Is this about it? G i didn't thnk it was funny he got rejected. i thought it was funny he actually asked. it was surprisig, plus it was also like 2 days after my co workers boyfriend left her for another girl, so it was kin dof a sudden shocking move
Grumpybutfun Posted February 9, 2014 Posted February 9, 2014 Look, this may have been trivial to you and you have thought her brother was silly to ask so soon after a breakup. Yet, this is her brother and she obviously thought this girl was a bitch for rejecting him like she did so when you laughed for whatever reason and insisted that you didn't think the girl was mean, it probably annoyed her. Logic has no place when people pick on, reject or hurt your family. If she isn't offended, she is most likely annoyed. Ask her and be prepared because it won't make sense to you but it will be valid of her. Ask, Grumps 3
KatZee Posted February 9, 2014 Posted February 9, 2014 Yeaah, so you laughed in your girlfriends face about her brother's situation, and then defended the girl she thinks is a bitch. Yep, I'd be annoyed too. Let's be real here. That's her FAMILY. You're just a boyfriend. 3
organizedchaos Posted February 9, 2014 Posted February 9, 2014 Yeaah, so you laughed in your girlfriends face about her brother's situation, and then defended the girl she thinks is a bitch. Yep, I'd be annoyed too. Let's be real here. That's her FAMILY. You're just a boyfriend. Yeah, not a break-upable offense, but trust me, the gf will put a pin in this and it will be one strike against you, OP. Shows lack of respect for her family. She will remember how you laughed at her brother's rejection at some future point when she's really pissed off at you. 1
ExpatInItaly Posted February 9, 2014 Posted February 9, 2014 Not good, OP. I can understand why she's annoyed. Your reaction to that makes you seem insensitive and, frankly, immature. 1
BradJacobs Posted February 9, 2014 Posted February 9, 2014 Your girlfriend thinks that your coworker should feel "honored" that she was asked out by her brother. You thought it was crazy that your girlfriend's brother asked her out in the first place and justified her turning him down by saying it wasn't mean. So now she knows you don't have her family's back and will make fun of their failures. Best of luck in fixing this one! 2
crederer Posted February 10, 2014 Posted February 10, 2014 What? I don't even know what the hell......OP.....stop thinking so much.
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