muhicadi1 Posted February 9, 2014 Posted February 9, 2014 (edited) I know im new here but Im reading these forums for like for EVER and I finally want to thank this community I broke up from my first relationship, kinda short but still relationship and even if I wanted to beg bla bla I never did that because I felt it was not necessary and because you all guys are just telling everyone go NC Now even tho it sounds harsh it is true what people say here, if they want to be with you THEY WOULD BE WITH YOU But I didnt stop here and this is the reason I opened this thread I love and respect my self in every way, and I can not accept the break up with "its not you its me" I wanted for my self and for the person I fell for to feel my respect, to feel my presence and to feel the power that I actually hold in me, I wanted them to feel my character so I provoced her in 30 days of light contact and it finally pushed her, so she basically said: The truth, she didn't like me and she only thought that I was charismatic and funny, that she never felt the love connection and that she needed to try new things. You know what I said to her ? I thanked her for being honest finally, that actions that she took with that text she sended me shoved me character that I could not see when she broke up with me like a kid, like a person that is afraid to tell and feel the truth. We then had long talk on viber talking so we can both respect each other and she finally met me, the real me, the man that every woman can dream for in the future and will be happy to be my soul mate. Im 24 years old and she is 20 and for now she got a huge blow from me, a blow from maturity and self respect because in those 30 days I refused to be her friend, I want to be her lover and now its over, but it is over like it is supposed to be over. She could not continue the conversation, I know why, its because she was crying and she needed to feel that, we are done now Its done deal and thank you loveshack. Edited February 9, 2014 by muhicadi1 1
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