secret admirer Posted February 9, 2014 Posted February 9, 2014 I posted this in the wrong thread before, so now its here in the right place. Anyways... I ask this girl out and she said yes. We went to the movies and went out to eat. We laughed and had a good time, but she seemed disinterested. Her body language was very closed, her arms were crossed, she sat as far away as she could, and she occasionally returned eye contact when I looked at her. It felt terrible. Any touch I made or wanted to make drifted her further away. I couldnt even get a hug goodbye. So now I'm here wondering what just happened? She still texts me like shes interested in me, but in person shes not... and why did she even go out with me that night?
notthathard Posted February 9, 2014 Posted February 9, 2014 She might have been super nervous or you're being put in the friend zone.
Poppygoodwill Posted February 9, 2014 Posted February 9, 2014 Not sure what you expected her to do on a first date, but clearly you thought she would be physical with you in some way. But maybe she's shy, or nervous, or was taught to hold back and take things slow? Or maybe she's self-conscious. Or didn't want you to get the wrong idea about her. You both seemed to have a good time and she's still texting you, so I think you can safely assume to ask her out again. and expect to take it slow with this girl. If you a few more dates you're still not getting a hug even, then you're in the friendzone. But it's too early to tell.
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