Hattie Posted February 9, 2014 Posted February 9, 2014 Saturday night.....I go in the bathroom and flip my head upside down...get the seductive look going....walk out with a sexual look on my face. He doesn't even look up from his tablet-my new replacement. Now I sit here unnoticed and he just sits there farting. I thought this phase of life was a joke! Something spoofed on t.v or movies..... Uhg!
whichwayisup Posted February 9, 2014 Posted February 9, 2014 Saturday night.....I go in the bathroom and flip my head upside down...get the seductive look going....walk out with a sexual look on my face. He doesn't even look up from his tablet-my new replacement. Now I sit here unnoticed and he just sits there farting. I thought this phase of life was a joke! Something spoofed on t.v or movies..... Uhg! Did you talk to him about this? Next time, walk by naked... LOL at the fart thing.
lollipopspot Posted February 9, 2014 Posted February 9, 2014 Just stop having sex with him for 2 weeks and I guarantee you he will notice. No he won't. Look at her other thread, he'd rather look at porn than have sex with his wife. OP, are you really surprised?
Silly_Girl Posted February 9, 2014 Posted February 9, 2014 Mussing your hair snf having 'a sexual look on your face' (whatever *that* is) isn't the same (hemisphere) as leaning over and kissing him, or sitting straddled on him teasing him about what you'd like to do if he weren't so engrossed. Or any one of a load of things that involves engaging with him/touching him. I don't know your background but based on this post alone I'd suggest you don't take it to heart.
BOREDouttaMymind Posted February 10, 2014 Posted February 10, 2014 ya guys don't want what we can get. don't give him the option of sex and he'll forget his stupid ipad thing.
Author Hattie Posted February 10, 2014 Author Posted February 10, 2014 I brought this up with my hubby. So we talked about it. The result was....pity sex. He seduced me and while we were doing it, it became apparent he did it because he felt sorry for me. Not really what I was looking for. Hey, lesson learned. Probably best to find other means to cure my need. Oh well
d0nnivain Posted February 10, 2014 Posted February 10, 2014 (edited) My husband is a computer addict too. Sometimes if I really want his attention I will actually dirty message him while he's downstairs in the den / computer room & I'm upstairs in bed. He usually comes running. FWIW, a friend of mine who is a marriage counselor suggested literally walking up to him & grabbing his junk. Most men respond to that. How could they not? Edited February 10, 2014 by d0nnivain
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