Conners Posted February 9, 2014 Posted February 9, 2014 Last night I hooked up with a guy I work with. He is one of the mechanics at work and I just work in the office. The whole time we have worked together we have had partners but we always joked around and talked to the point where everyone at work was convinced we actually had hooked up. We both got out of relationships about a month ago and yesterday we were messaging on Facebook about being bored so I agreed to go over his house and "chill" and we just basically watched a movie and had sex. It was really good and I had completely forgotten about my ex for the night. This was in no way a date, I don't want a relationship for a while. He said we shouldn't tell anyone from work which I agreed to. He also said I won't be able to look you in the eye at work now, all the guys at work think i've been with you for some reason. Now today he messaged me to ask if I got home safely. and now he won't stop messaging me on facebook and he asked if he could come shopping with me (wtf). I'm not sure if this means he likes me or he just wants more sex or something or if he is just being nice. I don't want things to be awkward at work because i don't want to date him. I'll point out that i'm finishing up my job in a month to go back to school but still, it's a whole month away.
ja123 Posted February 9, 2014 Posted February 9, 2014 It sounds like he likes you, if he offered to go shopping with you!
TheyCallMeOx Posted February 9, 2014 Posted February 9, 2014 Maybe he's interested in buying you some sexy clothing? Might as well get interesting while you enjoy the sexual relationship you and him have? Also...free panties.
Author Conners Posted February 9, 2014 Author Posted February 9, 2014 yup a month of awkwardness:laugh:
CrystalCastles Posted February 9, 2014 Posted February 9, 2014 Well do you like him? Because it sure sounds like he likes you.
Poppygoodwill Posted February 9, 2014 Posted February 9, 2014 Too early to tell if he likes you or he just wants to get into your pants again. IT doesn't really matter. More important question: what do you want? If you want to have a booty call guy for another month, then say that to him but make it clear what it is, and isn't. If you want to move on from that one time, then just make that clear to him in a nice way. Either way, once you know what you want...make it clear to him. That will avoid awkwardness because no one can say they weren't told what was what.
Trimmer Posted February 9, 2014 Posted February 9, 2014 So it sounds like you talked about what your relationship means to everybody else (don't tell anyone at work.) But did you talk about what it might mean to you, what you might be looking for? You said, to us, as a statement: "This was in no way a date, I don't want a relationship for a while." But I can't tell if you said anything like that to him - did you guys have any kind of an understanding about "what this means?"
Author Conners Posted February 9, 2014 Author Posted February 9, 2014 So it sounds like you talked about what your relationship means to everybody else (don't tell anyone at work.) But did you talk about what it might mean to you, what you might be looking for? You said, to us, as a statement: "This was in no way a date, I don't want a relationship for a while." But I can't tell if you said anything like that to him - did you guys have any kind of an understanding about "what this means?" Well he knows I still love my ex and I know he still loves his ex since we spoke about it at work when I was feeling a bit down. So I thought that was clear that it would be nothing more, except for the fact he's been full on messaging me all day and wanting to do boyfriend sort of things with me. I'll see how it goes at work tomorrow.
Author Conners Posted February 9, 2014 Author Posted February 9, 2014 Well do you like him? Because it sure sounds like he likes you. Well i'm attracted to him and like him as a friend but I don't want a relationship right now.
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