Hurt and Disgusted Posted February 9, 2014 Posted February 9, 2014 Many of you know what I am dealing with if you read the post thread of my ex boyfriend who is cheating with 4 of our coworkers.. I have never been satisfied ever, like I have by this cheating ex of mine. I am just afraid I will never get that again and I must admit it is really important to me. I have to admit that his sex was mind-blowing, everything about it. My fear is that I am afraid I will get into a relationship where everything is good, but I wont be content with the sex. How do you deal (if you don't mind me asking)???
TheyCallMeOx Posted February 9, 2014 Posted February 9, 2014 You've gotta move on from the past. If you don't get over the past and accept it as past, you're gonna end up comparing your sexual experiences to your previous sexual experiences and that's just going to send you in a downward spiral. One minute you'll enjoy sex, the next you'll spark a thought in your mind on how the current sex lacks, and then you won't be aroused, and then he might question why you aren't secreting natural lubricant, and then he may feel like he's not doing a good job, and then the sex will start getting awkward, and then you'll realize he's not sexually satisfying you, and then you'll move onto someone else just to start the process all over again. You may need to spend some time by yourself until you move on from the past to prevent yourself from comparing next sexual experiences.
somedude81 Posted February 9, 2014 Posted February 9, 2014 Many of you know what I am dealing with if you read the post thread of my ex boyfriend who is cheating with 4 of our coworkers.. I have never been satisfied ever, like I have by this cheating ex of mine. I am just afraid I will never get that again and I must admit it is really important to me. I have to admit that his sex was mind-blowing, everything about it. My fear is that I am afraid I will get into a relationship where everything is good, but I wont be content with the sex. How do you deal (if you don't mind me asking)??? Is the sex good enough to you that you can forget and forgive anything about him? Is sex really that important to you?!!?!!? 1
Author Hurt and Disgusted Posted February 9, 2014 Author Posted February 9, 2014 It really was that good, honestly. My ex got plenty of practice by screwing everyone in sight, which is why we are not together. The sex is one of his positive attributes....it's on a whole different level. I don't want this to be a hindrance to my future relationship, but its kind of hard to forget and erase something so memorable and beyond pleasurable. See before him, I was celibate for three years and I was content, but after meeting him I found what I had been missing with all the others...
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