soulstarter Posted February 8, 2014 Posted February 8, 2014 im going camping with a friend I have previously kissed on one occasion and have kept in touch with. he has asked me to go camping in the mountains for 3 nights? im not sure if this is a date or am I still friendzoned?
TaraMaiden Posted February 8, 2014 Posted February 8, 2014 I think, if you're not careful, it may turn into a FWB situation..... 1
Author soulstarter Posted February 8, 2014 Author Posted February 8, 2014 whats a FWB??? im new to dating... like a lot... so I have no idea haha
Author soulstarter Posted February 8, 2014 Author Posted February 8, 2014 Sounds like much more than a date.[/quote really why?? im just not sure at all! Its ridiculous how bad I am at this!
TaraMaiden Posted February 8, 2014 Posted February 8, 2014 whats a FWB??? im new to dating... like a lot... so I have no idea haha Friend With benefits. Three nights... if you're sharing a tent, he may suggest cuddling up for warmth in one sleeping bag and....you know.... Just sex for heating and having a good time.... 1
Author soulstarter Posted February 8, 2014 Author Posted February 8, 2014 wow how did I miss FWB? haha I thought of that alright. im trying to look at this the most rational way I can. im not into that and I know he wont try it. we know each other pretty well. he also asked me to hike with the rest of his crew in a few days and meet up soon too. but you know that feeling ya get when your like. nope ITS ALL in your head!
TXGuy Posted February 9, 2014 Posted February 9, 2014 I don't think he is trying to hook up with you in a bad way. I like camping a lot. I like having sex a lot. I do not like having sex while camping. Camping is really dirty and uncomfortable. So, I would be inclined to think he wants to spend time with you without necessarily trying to push sex.
Author soulstarter Posted February 9, 2014 Author Posted February 9, 2014 I don't think he is trying to hook up with you in a bad way. I like camping a lot. I like having sex a lot. I do not like having sex while camping. Camping is really dirty and uncomfortable. So, I would be inclined to think he wants to spend time with you without necessarily trying to push sex. delighted to hear that.! its a little bit of a weight off.camping is his thing. and ive never really been but it looks like a lot of fun. spending time is a good thing right? I mean I don't spend time with people im enclined to think as not friendly. we get on and have spent time like this together in the past . so im guessing its the same as last time.
Andyy Posted February 9, 2014 Posted February 9, 2014 im going camping with a friend I have previously kissed on one occasion and have kept in touch with. he has asked me to go camping in the mountains for 3 nights? im not sure if this is a date or am I still friendzoned? Sounds to me like he is very interested. But are you prepared for the situation to escalate quickly. Because you're going to be in a position where this could happen (or maybe be expected/hoped to happen). If you want it to be serious I'd personally suggest spending time together before a 3 night camping trip unless you want a sexually-charged trip. Don't give it up too soon whatever you do. If he's genuinely keen and chivalric at all then he'll wait a while.
regine_phalange Posted February 9, 2014 Posted February 9, 2014 I never heard of a 3 day date before. I would friendzone him for 3 days and kiss him after we picked our tents and started on our way home. 1
Author soulstarter Posted February 9, 2014 Author Posted February 9, 2014 Sounds to me like he is very interested. But are you prepared for the situation to escalate quickly. Because you're going to be in a position where this could happen (or maybe be expected/hoped to happen). If you want it to be serious I'd personally suggest spending time together before a 3 night camping trip unless you want a sexually-charged trip. Don't give it up too soon whatever you do. If he's genuinely keen and chivalric at all then he'll wait a while. it escalated before , a couple of months ago. but because of distance it never happened in the long run. however he returned and we got in touch almost immedietly and we talk on the phone every few days. I want it to be serious of course. I don't sleep around. and he knows this because I have said it to his face. along with other things. we will be spending time together before the trip for sure. he has asked to meet up and then meet again before the trip. problem is I still have friendzone in my head. ??? really irritating btw people! the friendzone word!
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