GJB6471 Posted January 17, 2005 Posted January 17, 2005 i met this girl 2 weeks ago, we went on a date and had a great time. we had our second date last night. i felt confused, i did most of the talking, but we had a alright time, at the end of our date she kisses me, im still confused on where we stand.
razor Posted January 17, 2005 Posted January 17, 2005 Were you confused on the second date just because you did all the talking or were their other factors. Need details. It's possible that she was nervous or something was bothering her. When people are quiet or upset we usually assume it is us but it could be something else. My suggestion would be. Give her a call. And say somethings like this, " Hey I just called cause I was thinking about you. I really enjoyed going out with you but i noticed that you were quite, I hope everything is okay."Hopefully she will tell you why she was quiet. If she does than listen and be empathetic. But if she doesn't tell why she was quiet than.......don't push. Let her know she can call you if she want's to talk. And you would like to take out for lunch cause I miss you. good luck.
Author GJB6471 Posted January 17, 2005 Author Posted January 17, 2005 the first date was great, we hit it off great, the second date she seemed some were else, her sister is getting married this weekend, i dont know if that is on her mind, both times she initiated the kiss, is that a sign of interest or just beening nice.
fundamental Posted January 17, 2005 Posted January 17, 2005 If she kissed you, then everything is probably alright. Be careful and try not to come on too strong. If you ask her why she was so quiet, it might make her withdraw from the situation. By pointing out that she was acting strange (quiet), she might become even more nervous. Don't worry too much where you stand with this girl and don't get too desperate. If you are confused, don't tell her you are confused. Just ask her out on another date.
fundamental Posted January 17, 2005 Posted January 17, 2005 A kiss...especially on the lips...is a sign of interest
razor Posted January 17, 2005 Posted January 17, 2005 I don't agree with the "fundamental." I dont' think she will become nervous when you ask her why she was quiet. Whether she tells you the reason or not she will appreciate that you asked. go with your gut. But if I like somebody I'm asking them if they are okay whether they choose to tell me or not. Another idea is to talk about the wedding and be empathetic. Eg. "So are you ready for your sisters wedding? Weddings can be sometimes stressful" later
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