MaxgG1 Posted February 8, 2014 Posted February 8, 2014 Theres this girl at work who I think is really beautiful and nice and I really want to ask her out on a date but I don't really know her, we've only exchanged the odd smile and hi how are you. Would a girl find it weird if I just asked her out to the movies or for dinner if we've hardly spoken before? I've tried to speak to her more but we work in a busy restaurant and have never had breaks at the same time so I haven't had a chance to have an actual conversation with her.
HappyLove Posted February 8, 2014 Posted February 8, 2014 Dating a co-worker is trouble. If things don't work out it becomes VERY awkward. I'd look elsewhere. 1
Neith Posted February 8, 2014 Posted February 8, 2014 1. The poster above me is right.. dating co-workers is a tricky business. You just gotta hope that if it doesn't work out, you're both mature enough to remain professional. 2. It's not weird if you ask a girl out you don't know. Be prepared for her to say no though. She might not be into dating co-workers. 3. PLEASE: never take someone to the movies for a first date for the love of god. You'll learn nothing about her whatsoever. Never quite understood the point of first dates like that..
Zezima Posted February 8, 2014 Posted February 8, 2014 heyyyyyyyyyy baby baby I wanna knooooooooow if you'll be my gurl sing that to her and if she calls you a weirdo, then it wont work out. 1
soulstarter Posted February 8, 2014 Posted February 8, 2014 co worker dating is not that bad but as long as you realise what you are doing and risking at the same time. I have been in this situation and I just went for it. I know my answer might annoy some but I don't believ ein waiting around for what might happen. I look at what I ave now and ask if I am satisfied then I ask if I had what I am after and got it would I be happier and if the answer is yes then I go for it. sometimes taking a risk pays off but you need to be able to deal with rejection if it comes up.
BDL Posted February 8, 2014 Posted February 8, 2014 Does she seem interested in you? Does she give off signs of interest, like making eye contact, being near you, making small talk, etc? If she does, then just go ask her out for a drink, or anything super casual. If you "cold" approach her after working with her for some time, it may be a little weird. Girls aren't attracted to guys who are weak and who lack self-confidence, which is probably what you've been giving off since you are looking for help on this board. Might be too little too late. So maybe next time you make eye contact with her, keep and don't break eye contact. If she looks down first, then she may be interested in you. Go from there. Flirt a bit, tease her, and bust her balls (when the opportunity is there). Basically, be confident. Pretend she is your bratty younger sister, and treat her as such. DO NOT idealize her, her beauty or whatever you think is so perfect about her. Lastly, value your time and yourself more than any women. Do these things and she will be attracted to you. When approaching her for a date, detach yourself from the outcome. Pretend you are James Bond, and how would James Bond act. Do this and you are golden. If you get rejected, big deal. Remember, there is an endless supply of beautiful woman, one being born every second in this world.
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