JenRochester0594 Posted February 8, 2014 Posted February 8, 2014 I'm currently a second year college student and I met this guy a few month ago in my school dining hall. I thought he looked lonely sitting there by himself so I sat down with him and we talked for a few minutes before he told me that's he's going to his job. It was a short conversation but he sounded really nice to me. I saw him again about two weeks ago when he was eating dinner with his friends; I joined him and his friends and we had another nice conversation. I friended him on Facebook a few days later and he accepted it. However, just yesterday, I send him a message and he didn't reply to it. Is he busy (since he's an engineering major) or does he just not like replying to facebook messages? I really, really like this guy. P.S. we don't live in the same hall so I don't see him often. 1
confusedsoul14 Posted February 8, 2014 Posted February 8, 2014 Well, if he is not a frequent user, then it's normal for him to not reply to you on time. Have you tried asking for his number?
Author JenRochester0594 Posted February 8, 2014 Author Posted February 8, 2014 (edited) Not yet. I'll ask him next time I see him. At this point, he's not replying to my Facebook messages. He did when I messaged him last week though. And yeah, he goes on Facebook once a day and he logs off quickly. Edited February 8, 2014 by JenRochester0594
regine_phalange Posted February 8, 2014 Posted February 8, 2014 Bravo for going after what you want I think that probably he is not that interested though. It's not that hard to reply to a message, it takes, how much, 30 seconds? Don't think too much about it. Been there myself, and moved on fast and happy that I gave a chance for communication
Frank2thepoint Posted February 8, 2014 Posted February 8, 2014 I'm currently a second year college student and I met this guy a few month ago in my school dining hall. I thought he looked lonely sitting there by himself so I sat down with him and we talked for a few minutes before he told me that's he's going to his job. It was a short conversation but he sounded really nice to me. I saw him again about two weeks ago when he was eating dinner with his friends; I joined him and his friends and we had another nice conversation. I friended him on Facebook a few days later and he accepted it. However, just yesterday, I send him a message and he didn't reply to it. Is he busy (since he's an engineering major) or does he just not like replying to facebook messages? I really, really like this guy. Wait, what? There's women that approach men and talk to them, get their contact info, and continue pursuing the man? I disbelieve. This is an early April fools post. I must commend your courageous maneuver. I will cast a thousand rose petals out to sea to commemorate your bold, yet confident action. When a woman does what you did, an angel receives its wings, miracles happen. To offer my humble advice, since the guy is an engineering major, he maybe introverted. At the same time, he's also not sure that what you are doing is some prank or part of some initiation for a sorority. He may have watched Nerds a few times and has his reservations on reciprocating. You already admitted to liking him, and you are a confident woman, then I suggest for you to ask him out. Doesn't have to be fancy, pizza or drinks is good enough. Get him alone and see what he thinks of you.
somedude81 Posted February 8, 2014 Posted February 8, 2014 I'm currently a second year college student and I met this guy a few month ago in my school dining hall. I thought he looked lonely sitting there by himself so I sat down with him and we talked for a few minutes before he told me that's he's going to his job. It was a short conversation but he sounded really nice to me. I saw him again about two weeks ago when he was eating dinner with his friends; I joined him and his friends and we had another nice conversation. I friended him on Facebook a few days later and he accepted it. However, just yesterday, I send him a message and he didn't reply to it. Is he busy (since he's an engineering major) or does he just not like replying to facebook messages? I really, really like this guy. P.S. we don't live in the same hall so I don't see him often. Is he super hot or something? How can you really, really like a guy you've had two short conversations with? 1
Author JenRochester0594 Posted February 8, 2014 Author Posted February 8, 2014 (edited) Hey Frank2thePoint, you got that part about April right. I met that guy back in April but I didn't have the gut to talk to him until December. Well, I couldn't tell you why because that's a long story. He's friends with some of my friends so we sort of know each other before we started talking. And somedude81, this guy who I like is more like "handsome". For some strange reason, I like him because he looked like my friend from my freshman year in college but also the fact that he's very kind. That friend of mine can be rude sometimes. The messages I sent to him are just about classes in general Edited February 8, 2014 by JenRochester0594
somedude81 Posted February 8, 2014 Posted February 8, 2014 And somedude81, this guy who I like is more like "handsome". For some strange reason, I like him because he looked like my friend from my freshman year in college but also the fact that he's very kind. That friend of mine can be rude sometimes. The messages I sent to him are just about classes in general So he's good looking and he reminds you of a friend you had. Did you have a crush on that friend? Either way, don't send him stuff about class, send him a message that you'd like to get together for coffee, ice cream or whatever on campus.
Author JenRochester0594 Posted February 8, 2014 Author Posted February 8, 2014 Yeah I did, but he didn't feel the same way about me and we stopped talking to each other after the spring finals because he's transferring to another college and plus, we didn't really have any things in common. But thanks for the advice though. He's not that introverted and awkward like that friend of mine.
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