Alicia13 Posted February 8, 2014 Posted February 8, 2014 Okay so we dated for only a month, but honestly we had a very good relationship. He couldn't take his eyes off of me, always texted me first, and we never had any major fights. When I was with him I felt like it was us against the world, and I felt complete. We couldn't keep our hands off of each other...which was the problem. I impulsively broke up with him after one night of thinking our relationship was moving too fast. I now realize it was immature and stupid for me to break up with him without discussing it with him first. I don't know why I got so scared of moving too fast. And no matter how much I regret breaking up with him, I can't go back and change it. Anyways, I texted him a few days later telling him I wanted him back. He thought about it for a few days (I kind of pressured him though, another mistake), but eventually told me our relationship was over. I went no contact for a few weeks, and contacted him again. He seemed pretty cheerful, but ended the conversation pretty quickly. It's been 2 months since we broke up. I am now at the point where I don't NEED him, but I really want a second chance with him. He has only initiated contact once since we broke up, I have initiated it about 5 times. A few weeks ago I told him "I made a mistake" and he said "not the time". I don't understand why he wont talk about the relationship, even a month and a half after we broke up. After that happened, I told him "I was sorry for always pressuring him to talk about it, I know our relationship is over, but I hope we can stay friends?" he said that's fine. Two weeks after that happened, I texted him asking how he was doing, small talk. He acted very, very cold towards me. I don't understand why he was doing this when we agreed to be friends. - I am totally fine with not being together as a couple if he doesn't want that. I just want him to be happy. The problem is, does he know I want him back? Didn't I make that clear? I thought I did, but I guess I never came out and said it. I am scared of telling him outright now, in case he DOES know and I just end up embarrassing myself even more... So do I tell him my true feelings even though he may already know and think I'm that crazy ex who won't get over him? Or do I let him be? (If I do this, I'm scared he will think I don't want to be in a relationship with him, because I was the one who broke up with him)
d0nnivain Posted February 8, 2014 Posted February 8, 2014 Even though you may have realized you made a mistake, he has concluded that he no longer trusts you. He did everything "right" yet you still bolted. Unfortunately he's unwilling to give you a chance to redeem yourself. So now you have to find a way to move on.
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