He thought D-day was funny

[HairTie]

I have ended things with the MM months ago, but I'm still in the stage of sorting things out in my head. This includes analyzing the various things that occurred while the A was still going on. I know some view this (analyzing) as detrimental, but this is how I get over things.

 

Here is something that I think about a lot when I do think of him:

 

The ex-MM claims to love his W, and he wants to stay with her - he doesn't hide that at all. However, he has cheated on his BS years ago, and there was a D-day. She chose to forgive him. Despite them staying together, his infidelity obviously caused trust issues.

 

Fast forward a few years, and he's having an A with me. Well one day she called him and suspected him of cheating again. She didn't have any "evidence", it was simply a gut feeling. Anyway the point is...when he told me about the conversation that occurred between them, and that she was suspecting he was cheating again, he laughed and thought it was funny. I was disgusted by how he acted, and I told him so. How can someone act that way? So careless?

 

Anyway, sometimes, when I think about him I think of the "what ifs" and then I remember how he acted when there was another potential d-day on the way. I am reminded by his laughing, giggling, careless demeanor which I found to be even more disrespectful than his A. I suppose I should be thankful I'm the one that didn't marry him.

[ladydesigner]

I think my WH thought Dday was funny too as he carried on for more fun into False R. He enjoyed both of us (me and the MOW) fighting over him until I finally said no more and left. My WH is very immature for his age and has a personality disorder to boot! Good on you for ending it with this man-child!

[BetrayedH]

By marrying him, you just would have opened up a vacancy for another woman and been on the butt end of that joke.

 

It's just hysterical when you waste years of your life on an arsehole, ain't it? Hardy har har.