nuconteaza Posted February 7, 2014 Posted February 7, 2014 Ok. Two years ago i met a girl. We fell in love big time. The problem was we live in different cities and the circumstances did not let us to be in the same city. Anyway we continued for two years. We always acted like being together. Recently she met someone else. I understand this. We always talked about this and knew there is a chance for me or her to meet someone else. I always told her that will be the moment when we will stop. She told me i was the chosen one, she told me how she imagined how our babies will look like. My question is why is she still wanting to talk with me? I told her that i really believe that we are made to be together and she asked me if i really mean this and i told her yes, but the moment is not now. So why does she want to keep in touch?
Barbarossa Posted February 7, 2014 Posted February 7, 2014 She probably still cares for you or wants to feed her ego. In either case you should forget this girl and move on.
TXGuy Posted February 7, 2014 Posted February 7, 2014 "I'm leaving you for someone else, but I'd still like you to be there for me." I can see why she would want this, but I can't see why you would tolerate it.
FrostBlaze Posted February 7, 2014 Posted February 7, 2014 (edited) Probably has a hard time letting go, i've dealt with a similar situation(low self-exteem, immaturity), or she keeps you for backup. You never actually met in 2 years, just online? How old are you by the way? . A guy that can be close to her will always win no matter how deep she felt for you. I feel sorry you wasted so much time, there isn't a "THE one/chosen one", there are more, it just matters on wich one you decide to settle down with, it's hard to find them sometimes. ALso, never meeting...eh, how do you know you actually fit? You can't really feel that much through the WEB/etc. I say don't put up with this and go find someone else. Reason i asked for age is because of university/collidge, a lot of opportunities show up there, and other reasons. Edited February 7, 2014 by FrostBlaze
Author nuconteaza Posted February 8, 2014 Author Posted February 8, 2014 I am 24 she is 23. We have met live. Many times. We spent a lot of time together. I have even met her parents. We really love each other. And I understand that she wants someone to be close to her. The thing is I really wanted to move in the city she lives, but I did not want to tell her till I know something for sure. So she met someone else and I really understand this. I always told her if she will met someone else everything will have to stop.
Poppygoodwill Posted February 8, 2014 Posted February 8, 2014 I would go No contact as the first step to moving on with your life. She's probably trying to be kind and not feel like the 'bad one' by saying she still loves you and all that stuff but really, that only serves to confuse the person being dumped, as you've found. The hard truth is she has dumped you and moved on. So forget what she's saying, and focus on her actions. And act yourself accordingly. sorry to say it.
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