frigginlost Posted February 7, 2014 Posted February 7, 2014 Dumped by ex, and went full blown NC. Blocked everything to do with her. Apparently, as I was showing a buddy how to block calls, I inadvertently removed the block on the ex. I was almost a week and a half into NC when I got a text from a number I did not recognize. It was a simple "?". I replied asking who is this, but never got a reply. Turns out that unrecognized number was my ex's. I simply had no clue as I blew away her contact info on my phone. I really don't know how to feel about it. I think it was just a shot to see if she was still blocked. Amazing how a simple text can cause a rush of feelings...
sportzhl24 Posted February 7, 2014 Posted February 7, 2014 I mean I guess technically that is blowing NC but it was an accident. And as long as you carry on going NC, you'll be just fine. Don't read too much into that text from her. Stay committed to NC if you feel that is the best thing to do. Which it usually is
reddragon588 Posted February 7, 2014 Posted February 7, 2014 Well, yes, but it was not on purpose, so don't feel as though you broke it. But now that you know the number, you can block it as well and continue with NC!
mikelongtolt Posted February 7, 2014 Posted February 7, 2014 Dumped by ex, and went full blown NC. Blocked everything to do with her. Apparently, as I was showing a buddy how to block calls, I inadvertently removed the block on the ex. I was almost a week and a half into NC when I got a text from a number I did not recognize. It was a simple "?". I replied asking who is this, but never got a reply. Turns out that unrecognized number was my ex's. I simply had no clue as I blew away her contact info on my phone. I really don't know how to feel about it. I think it was just a shot to see if she was still blocked. Amazing how a simple text can cause a rush of feelings... Technically is breaking NC. However, on ur ex's end is a clear message that u are in NC and she should respect that. and the fact is she broke the NC with u. U are doing it right. Keep it going.
guest572 Posted February 7, 2014 Posted February 7, 2014 I wouldn't count it as contact, you didn't even know who it was. How did you find out that it was your ex?
Author frigginlost Posted February 7, 2014 Author Posted February 7, 2014 Fired up an old cell phone and cross referenced the number... 2 weeks of NC as of today, and my emotions are "all over the ranch" as they say. Angry one minute, devastated the next. Also heard through the grapevine that she is dating someone new. I was married close to 20 years and when the ex-wife walked, I was nowhere near this messed up about it. I have no idea how this girl got so deep into my heart and head, but holy heck does it hurt. Onward...
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