sighh Posted February 7, 2014 Posted February 7, 2014 ex gf dumped me after 3 years couldn't really give a decent reason no contact day 19 and i woke upto this message im texting you to let you know i obviously still want to maintain some sort of friendship with you, but in the mean time i don't think it's the right time. seeing your little description thing on instagram i didn't think you would go that low, i'm doing what i need to do and im sorry it doesn't meet up to your expectations. it's not just hard on you it has been really hard on me aswell but it has helped me get through this. i know you have said everything about me to people and im shocked you would do that but what's done is done you have already let it all out and it does hurt me. im sorry again for the position you are in, i hope you are doing alright and enjoying life, all i want is for you to be happy again, i hope something works out in the end. ------------------------
frigginlost Posted February 7, 2014 Posted February 7, 2014 Ignore it. She's on a fishing expedition. Ignoring plays against her two ways: You continue to heal. She has no idea if you are becoming as happy as she wants. Let her stew... 1
mikelongtolt Posted February 7, 2014 Posted February 7, 2014 ex gf dumped me after 3 years couldn't really give a decent reason no contact day 19 and i woke upto this message im texting you to let you know i obviously still want to maintain some sort of friendship with you, but in the mean time i don't think it's the right time. seeing your little description thing on instagram i didn't think you would go that low, i'm doing what i need to do and im sorry it doesn't meet up to your expectations. it's not just hard on you it has been really hard on me aswell but it has helped me get through this. i know you have said everything about me to people and im shocked you would do that but what's done is done you have already let it all out and it does hurt me. im sorry again for the position you are in, i hope you are doing alright and enjoying life, all i want is for you to be happy again, i hope something works out in the end. ------------------------ Yup as said by the others, do not reply...she just needs comfort to knw tht u are still there for her...as u are healing without her, she shud do the same by healing in her own way without u. Meantime, it might be useful to block her from all ur social media or at least limit her viewing capacity in this duration of healing process for the both of you....it be good for the both of u in the long run. Good luck my friend. 1
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