Maziexoxo Posted February 6, 2014 Posted February 6, 2014 Me and my ex boyfriend speak everyday and have done since our break up three months ago! We have seen each-other numerous amounts of times and even slept together. I still love him very much, and one night when I was out in my local town, I saw him and we got chatting as the drinks were flowing and we ended up kissing and he told me he has and always will love me. Of course I replied with saying I loved him too. (We were both drunk) but since then it hasn't been mentioned again. I didn't want to bring it up and obviously he didnt eaither, is that because we're in denial? Or he just didnt mean it? He tells me loads about how so many girls are talking to him and how one girl is in love with him and all this. And I just laugh along and make a joke of it, but it hurts me loads. Is he doing this to make me jealous? Or because he generally does see me as just a friend? I really want to give him a ultimatum and say 'we either stop talking or we give this another go' but I'm scared to, I don't want to be rejected but I feel that of I don't do something soon, I will be attached to him forever and never move on. I mean I have seen a couple of other men, but I soon ended it always because of him, as I couldn't get him out my mind! Help me! I feel as if Im stuck in a vicious circle!
somecamel Posted February 6, 2014 Posted February 6, 2014 It sounds like you're both playing games with each other and are too shy to talk about it. Why did you guys break up?
Author Maziexoxo Posted February 6, 2014 Author Posted February 6, 2014 I probably wouldn't doubt that he is playing games, but I'm certainty not. I'm just doing what feels right, I want him back but I don't know how to go about it. I don't know if he sees me as just a really good friend or he's still that hung up on me he's dong all he can to make me jealous and **** with my mind. And we split up because he was going through a rough patch and decided he would move in with his brother (we weren't living together) (we have lived together before, but we were too young then and my parents didnt agree with it) but we were living 10 minutes away from eachother, obviously this hurt me and I tried to be there for him but he kept pushing me away and all we did was argue and I couldn't Cope and So i ended it with him.
somecamel Posted February 6, 2014 Posted February 6, 2014 Ok, Well he could be trying to make you jealous by talking about the other girls, maybe he's doing this because he wants to be with you as well, many a true thing is said when you've had a drink, talk to him, tell him how you feel and see if it's reciprocated, if it's not you need to stop sleeping with him.
Simon Phoenix Posted February 6, 2014 Posted February 6, 2014 What reason does he have to get back together with you if you are always available to hang out with him and sleep with him? I mean, if your goal is to get him back, you are employing a really bad technique. Sounds like you are in friends-with-benefits zone. As soon as he finds someone else that catches his fancy he'll dump you like that.
pickflicker Posted February 6, 2014 Posted February 6, 2014 Why buy the cow, when you can get the milk for free? In other words, you act exactly like a girlfriend, without him having to promise fidelity or any of the other things one can expect from a committed relationship. So..why would he commit to you?
charliemorgan Posted February 7, 2014 Posted February 7, 2014 Why you should require to sleep with him.? Stop acting like a girlfriend. You should talk with him about your feeling. If he accept you and care about your than you should bring your relation with him.
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