rodawaybecky Posted February 6, 2014 Posted February 6, 2014 Basically about 2 weeks ago this guy who goes to my university asked me for my number via Facebook as that's how we initially began talking. I took the initiative to add him as we always gave each other flirty smiles and had really intense eye contact whenever we would see each other I text him the other day telling him that I saw somebody who looked just like him but when I said hi it turned out to be someone completely different. We got into a big conversation and he asked me to give him a text when I'm next at uni. A few days passed and when I did eventually see him we said hi etc. but I was on my way to a lecture so there was no time for chit chat, I text him afterwards to see where he was but he didn't receive the message until later on in the day which by that time I had gone home. Once again we had a long conversation up until 3 in the morning talking about relationships and various valentines day plans etc and yet again he asked me to text him when I'm in Uni or he will text me if he's in. I don't get it he's showing interest but he isn't initiating conversations via text. Whats up with that? Any ideas?
mammasita Posted February 6, 2014 Posted February 6, 2014 How is it that you text him but he didn't receive it until later in the day? He has a cell phone on him, right? ------------ Sounds like you're fun to talk to but he's not interested enough to ask out. OR He's a wuss. 2
Barbarossa Posted February 6, 2014 Posted February 6, 2014 Haha you sound exactly like the girl I'm talking to. She added me on Facebook we messaged a bit then I asked for her number. I will only text her if I want to see her I don't initiate conversation at other times. I'm interested in her I just would rather talk in person than through a phone.
d0nnivain Posted February 6, 2014 Posted February 6, 2014 Maybe he doesn't like texting. I know it's hard to believe but there was a time when people interacted with each other, live & in person, without an electronic device. If he wants to see you that is WAAAAAYYYY better than a text. Why are you so hung up on the impersonal interaction when you are getting real time with him?
georgecostanza Posted February 6, 2014 Posted February 6, 2014 He's not that into you. He's probably a bit interested but not looking for anything serious from you. I'll hold my hands up and admit I do this to a few girls who are into me, I let them do the chasing and only text back when I want to see them. It's not that I don't like them, it's just that I don't like them as much as they want me to.
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