craig1990 Posted February 6, 2014 Posted February 6, 2014 I signed up to tinder a couple of weeks ago. I've talked to a few girls without much success There was this one girl who i really liked, we spoke for a couple of days and then i gave her my number since then she hasn't replied. Can i send her another message? If so what do i say? I know the answer is i probably shouldn't but i'll never meet this girl anyway so i don't have much to lose i feel.
SYLLPalmer Posted February 6, 2014 Posted February 6, 2014 I signed up to tinder a couple of weeks ago. I've talked to a few girls without much success There was this one girl who i really liked, we spoke for a couple of days and then i gave her my number since then she hasn't replied. Can i send her another message? If so what do i say? I know the answer is i probably shouldn't but i'll never meet this girl anyway so i don't have much to lose i feel. This is the presumption of the undesirable guy. You may not loose but you will never win either. Your best chance is to leave the ball in her court and if she doesn't volley she won't. I have reconsidered and blown off men that were too eager. It oozes desperate. Sorry but this is how we are conditioned to be. Move on.
FitChick Posted February 6, 2014 Posted February 6, 2014 I have reconsidered and blown off men that were too eager. It oozes desperate. Sorry but this is how we are conditioned to be. Move on. So you'd ignore a man who was good looking, great personality, very successful, owned his own home, sophisticated, funny, etc., if he was too eager? :laugh::laugh::laugh: 1
Minnie09 Posted February 6, 2014 Posted February 6, 2014 So you'd ignore a man who was good looking, great personality, very successful, owned his own home, sophisticated, funny, etc., if he was too eager? :laugh::laugh::laugh: Bahaha seriously........ I'm not conditioned that way, unless he calls 3 times a day for no reason. Otherwise I'd assume he's just interested.
Targetlock Posted February 7, 2014 Posted February 7, 2014 got for it, you got to play the game in order to win and sometimes you lose but it makes the wins that much better.
cynthia888 Posted February 7, 2014 Posted February 7, 2014 Send one more message...and if she doesn't reply, let it go.
SunnySide0418 Posted February 7, 2014 Posted February 7, 2014 Why would you give her your number instead of asking for hers? I wouldn't have contacted you either...
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