chewychew Posted February 6, 2014 Posted February 6, 2014 About 1-2 months ago I broke up with my ex, thinking that I could do better as he was treating me quite badly (did not give me enough attention etc.) And the next day, I went out with another guy because he treated me well when my ex couldn't. But after going out with this guy I realised that I really loved my ex and that I still wanted to be with him even though this new guy could provide me with what I wanted. So I stopped going out with this guy and I went back to my ex. But by that time he was heartbrokened and he lost his trust in me. Ever since then, my ex would give me mixed signals. He would always say that he still likes me and that he misses me but sometimes he would say that he is going to wait, while other times he would say that he is going to move on. My conclusion was that he doesn't know what he wants right now. A few days back, my sister texted him (we are all good friends) and he said stuff like he wanted me to concentrate on my studies first (I have a very important upcoming examination in a few months). He told her that he loves me but he loves his freedom more (apparently, to him I was very clingy and he described our relationship to be "suffocating") When we were together, I admit that I had been really clingy but that was only because he didn't give me enough attention, or at least that was what I felt. To him it was almost the full amount of attention he could give me. I didn't give him enough time to study and it did cause him to not get his desired result. He bottles up his feelings a lot and now I guess he exploded. And I can tell that he is still hurt and that he is still angry with me. He still gets jealous when I talk to other guys though. He told me to move on with life first and when he has an answer, he will tell me. (I have a feeling that this is an excuse to help me concentrate more on my studies). I read online about the no contact rule and I am currently in the middle of it. And I was wondering if I did re-enter his life a new, stronger person who can give him his freedom but at the same time be really good friends with him etc. Will he come back to me? He did tell his friends that he might get back together with me (his friends disapprove of us getting back together). So what should I do? Move on? Or wait and see what happens? Or both? And will the advice from online help me get him back? I really love him.
Zahara Posted February 6, 2014 Posted February 6, 2014 After breaking up with your boyfriend, the next day you suddenly met a guy that treated you well? Were you seeing this guy while you were with your boyfriend?
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