Gallaxia Posted February 6, 2014 Posted February 6, 2014 It's been 18 days of NC since our fight. We still follow each other on Twitter so we see each other's posts. I won't lie, there have been a couple of passive-aggressive digs thrown towards each other but for the past two days, he's been going out of his way to make me jealous-like, specific stuff that I know is directed towards me & trying to flirt with other girls, posting flirty suggestive things etc. Funny thing is, if the girls flirt first, he politely turns them down. Huh? Initially when we fought, I reached out to him twice via text to talk about the situation but never heard back. So I dropped it. Now as I'm ready to move forward he's behaving like this. What gives? What do I do? I still care for him. IF we were to talk, like, really talk, I might consider getting back with him IF we could work on the thing that made us fight. MIGHT. I don't know. But so far NC from him... Why would he not want to talk but go out of his way to make me jealous?
organizedchaos Posted February 6, 2014 Posted February 6, 2014 It's not NC if you both follow each other on twitter or even check up on them thru social media. Cut the connection completely and the there will be no guessing games.
lucky_penny Posted February 6, 2014 Posted February 6, 2014 You aren't doing yourself any favors by still following him on social media and exchanging passive-aggressive comments. You are cementing in his mind that you were worth leaving. NC means just that - no contact whatsoever. He knows you want to talk. So when he is ready, he will reach out (IF he reaches out, it's not guaranteed). If you're ready to move on then do just that - cut the contact and move on. He'll make himself known if he wants you back. 1
Author Gallaxia Posted February 6, 2014 Author Posted February 6, 2014 Yeah, Thanks guys. GAAAH! He just posted another passive-aggressive message! Oh man...
Recommended Posts