Nanners Posted February 6, 2014 Posted February 6, 2014 This girl that I have known for about a year, shes in my friends social circle, broke up with her boyfriend of about a year a little under a month ago. Last week she randomly added me on facebook and we started to talk. After a few days of this I asked for her number and things went really fast. By fast I mean she was telling me good night/morning every day and was dropping hints left and right that she was single. I decided that I was going to ask her out to dinner to which she accepted. That was last night. Today started with the usual good morning and smiley face text messages. A few hours after that I get this out of the blue text message that said she was uncomfortable about friday, the day of the date. When I asked why she said shes never been on an actual date. I was a little confused by the comment but I brushed it off and said something along the lines that I didn't want to make her uncomfortable. She pitched an idea to go on a double date with one of our mutual friends. I agreed but for some reason now she keeps apologizing. So far she has said sorry 5 different times. Its not that big of a deal to me but for some reason shes acting like it is. Can anyone help make sense of this situation? Cause I'm just sitting here trying to figure out whats happening. Just an update; as I was typing this a gal pal just texted me saying that shes hanging out with the girl I asked out and said that she still talks about me like she really likes me. Just adding more fuel to the confusion fire.
ExpatInItaly Posted February 6, 2014 Posted February 6, 2014 She's not ready to date yet. Her break-up wasn't that long ago and it sounds like she wants to be ready to get back out there, but she isn't. If you go ahead with this, I'd take it pretty slow and stay casual. She's so uncomfortable with the situation that she needs another couple to come with? Not a good sign. Be cautious here.
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