Alexandré Posted January 16, 2005 Posted January 16, 2005 OK like 5 months back or so I was dating this girl. When I met her and first went out with her she was only visiting, but after she landed a job she decided to stay permanantly. So by this time we had only gone on one real date, but we spent alot of time together over the course of about a month. Then we were talking one day and she told me that her birthday was coming up. And she said she wanted to spend it with me and do somethings special. I was so excited because I had very strong feelings for this girl and I was under the impression that she had the same for me. Well, the day before her birthday she calls to tell me she has to cancel because she wasnt feeling well, and to tell me that shes going to go stay at another friends house for a while...and that was the last time I talked to her. She didnt have a cellphone so I couldnt call her, and I never got any reply from emails (which really wasnt surprising because she didnt get half the emails I sent while we were dating). But I was so purplexed that she just disappeared. Well on the 4th of this month I started a new job with this big company in my city (1,500+ employees). And on the friday of my first week I found out that she works there too . So now I've got all kinds of unresolved **** running through my head. And I know that eventually were going to run into each other, especially since were both smokers and theres only one designated smoking area at our building. And I dont know what to think or what to do. I think at the least I need to talk to her and ask her what happened, just to get some closure. What do you guys think?
moimeme Posted January 16, 2005 Posted January 16, 2005 Just say 'I was wondering what happened to you'. If you want, you can say (humourously if you can pull it off) 'oh, you're still alive - I was wondering what happened to you'.
magda Posted January 16, 2005 Posted January 16, 2005 I agree, just casually remark about her disappearance and let it go.
curiousnycgirl Posted January 16, 2005 Posted January 16, 2005 Be cool, be casual, be nice and friendly - put her and yourself at ease and DO NOT pick up dating her again!!!!! Total relationship suicide to date a coworker
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