FitChick Posted February 6, 2014 Posted February 6, 2014 But the games are from HIS end, not mine. I actually liked HIM and would have had a relationship. But, HE kept pushing and pulling, friend zoning, etc. I did call HIM out on the game playing, which is pretty much what HE means in the first post of the thread when HE says, "come see me, I'm ready. " HE means HE isn't confused or playing games with me anymore. But at the same time, HE is human, HE will be confused, make mistakes, etc.... it hurt me for HIM to play games, because i had developed feelings, but HE didn't mean harm by it. it is just the way HE gets girls. Waits 24 to 48 hours to respond to texts, etc....Now if a 40+ year old woman had posted the above...
Woggle Posted February 6, 2014 Posted February 6, 2014 This is why if I were single I would never be with any woman younger than 25. It's like babysitting instead of dating. 2
Mascara Posted February 7, 2014 Posted February 7, 2014 (edited) Sully for what it's worth I agree that you're having a period of crazy. I think in a few years you'll look at these girls and wonder what you were thinking. My youngest kid is 19, and you're nearly my age, so it just seems beyond weird to me Edited February 7, 2014 by a LoveShack.org Moderator Commentary on posting exchanges redacted as off-topic
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Emilia Posted February 7, 2014 Posted February 7, 2014 I don't know how to really emphasize that we were talking every day, she would not stop dropping compliments/hints, was generally interested in my life and me as a person at levels much more in depth than normal dating. I mean i know her already. we've already spent a week together. 2 weeks total time and she pursued me. i mean, extremely attractive girls in this age bracket simply do not text guys little good mornings and cute stuff all day long if they aren't into you. Their phones are exploding with other guys all the time. There is a line around the block waiting. They waste no time on anyone they aren't interested in. Yet, she is excited to come see me. I don't know how to emphasize it either, you started this thread, not me. My response ties in with the purpose of the original post: 19 year-olds are unpredictable and they love attention. Hope it works out but I think many of those that think it will are simply being naive. And have no experience of dating 19 year-olds.
Author theothersully Posted February 13, 2014 Author Posted February 13, 2014 Well, it's done. Final result is girl #2, the one who is the most mature, yet the youngest in years, is the one I'm officially in a relationship with. There is a different thread about it. The surprising thing is... it wasn't confusing at all with the other 2 also vying to date me. The one I chose was the clear choice. The minute we hung out again, I lost any and all interest in the other 2.
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