darkmoon Posted February 5, 2014 Posted February 5, 2014 if promiscuity is okay - why is it so shaming to discuss when you meet somebody special that people hide the truth about a promiscuous past? one question - can you justify lying??
mammasita Posted February 5, 2014 Posted February 5, 2014 Who said promiscuity was OK? I think that's subjective. 1
Author darkmoon Posted February 5, 2014 Author Posted February 5, 2014 Who said promiscuity was OK? I think that's subjective. I use the word if, it is the very first word first sentence, two skinny letters are hard to notice, I guess
central Posted February 5, 2014 Posted February 5, 2014 Assuming promiscuity IS okay, people know that there are many who will look down on them for it and so will not reveal all in order to avoid negative judgment and bias. Besides, one persons's promiscuous is another's reasonable experience.
deathandtaxes Posted February 5, 2014 Posted February 5, 2014 Need more info, OP. Like central says, it's all relative. OP - what would you consider promiscuous?
soccerrprp Posted February 6, 2014 Posted February 6, 2014 if promiscuity is okay - why is it so shaming to discuss when you meet somebody special that people hide the truth about a promiscuous past? one question - can you justify lying?? Because promiscuity IS NOT OKAY for the vast majority of people wanting a relationship. People get an idea, warranted or not, of how a person is why their past. For some people, the person's past matters. 1
Author darkmoon Posted February 6, 2014 Author Posted February 6, 2014 Need more info, OP. Like central says, it's all relative. OP - what would you consider promiscuous? more than one ONS a week when single
Lady2163 Posted February 6, 2014 Posted February 6, 2014 more than one ONS a week when single Teasing....in 28 years of sexual awareness, I've been single for probably 16 of those years. 16 x 52 = 832 Whoo hoo!!!!!!! I am no longer considered promiscuous.... I've had a lot of fun in my life. I've been to swingers parties, and in the military, there were a LOT more men than women! So, I have a colorful past. But it's in the past. In at least 8 years, Ive had sex with 3 men. I've never had a disease or been pregnant. Yes, I do think it is perfectly okay to lie or omit your sexual history with a new committed partner. It is none of their business what happened before them, particularly if there hasn't been disease or pregnancy. If it was that important that I have very few partners, I doubt our relationship would survive. The older I get, the fewer questions men ask.
Eau Claire Posted February 6, 2014 Posted February 6, 2014 if promiscuity is okay - why is it so shaming to discuss when you meet somebody special that people hide the truth about a promiscuous past? one question - can you justify lying?? As a nurse, it's not ok with me. As for the poster who claims to have never had an STD...that shows ignorance of many STDs...women and men are often not aware they have chlamydia, etc. A partner can be asymptomatic of over a dozen STDs, including HIV, and pass one unknowingly onto you. 1
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