SG19765 Posted February 5, 2014 Posted February 5, 2014 Ok guys, I've been dating a girl for about 2 months. Posted on another board some questions about out relationship so far. Anyways, I made a pact to not divulge into the sexual past (ie. numbers, acts, etc.) as this has always caused turmoil in other relationships of mine. So anyways, we discussed some basic stuff about relationships and what not. From what she told me her past isn't bad at all. Problem is I find myself guessing and its really annoying me. I'd rather assume than know to be completely honest because I would so much rather focus on the now as I have an insane past (not so much sexual) but in other aspects. I am assuming this is normal to be wondering, I'm just curious if it ever actually goes away. Like I said in some aspects ignorance is bliss (as long as STD's or pregnancies weren't involved).
Philosoraptor Posted February 5, 2014 Posted February 5, 2014 First you need to figure out why you want to know such things? You've already said in another thread that "she never had a one night stand and really doesn't take the sex stuff lightly". What else could you possibly be curious about? Would it help you to know that she had 3 lovers who really gave it good to her from behind, but only one who could get her there in missionary? Do you believe she is committed to you? Are you happy with your relationship? If so, then don't let something from her past affect what you have now. Whatever it is, it's happened, nothing can change it, and worrying about it is nothing but a waste of time.
Author SG19765 Posted February 5, 2014 Author Posted February 5, 2014 Yea I am. It almost seems like I get anxiety when I'm not with her as right now I can on the weekends and thats not even set in stone. When we are together none of that crap even bothers me, it's when we are apart I start to get bent. Maybe I'm love sick who the hell knows.
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