sportzhl24 Posted February 6, 2014 Posted February 6, 2014 NC day 155 or so. 65 percent healed. Everybodys healing process is different I guess
Author herself Posted February 6, 2014 Author Posted February 6, 2014 155 and 365 days I see above? I am amazed and look so forward to getting there too. WOW. The strength it must have taken to maintain that is so BOSS. I needed an inspiration this morning. Havent been listening to music too much because it effects my emotions too much, but I played the radio on my commute to work and had to change every song. Tommorow will be ONE MONTH no contact. Its big for me.
Author herself Posted February 6, 2014 Author Posted February 6, 2014 Day 57 of NC. 60 % healed. WOW! So another 57 days and you will be 120% healed! Thats awesome!
David87 Posted February 6, 2014 Posted February 6, 2014 WOW! So another 57 days and you will be 120% healed! Thats awesome! You will never forget your ex if you loved her/him with all your heart, but you learn to live without them.
Wings Of Love Posted February 6, 2014 Posted February 6, 2014 Breakup happened on July 12th. Not sure of the exact amount of days, but haven't spoken since August 28th and officially cut him out of my life on October 3rd. I would say I'm about 50% over it, which for me is fantastic considering it took 3 years to get over my first ex. I've had a rough time the last few days but I think it's down to Valentine's Day coming up. Otherwise I'm doing quite well, very little temptation to contact him.
Ruby Slippers Posted February 7, 2014 Posted February 7, 2014 feel happy for you. I broke up with my ex 4 months ago and still healing. Haven't met someone yet. I haven't either, just talking to someone - no idea if it will go anywhere. And believe me, I have plenty of those "never gonna meet the right guy" feelings. I'm just trying to stay positive and keep the forward momentum going, to create sufficient escape velocity from the breakup and memories. Hang in there. Time is a great healer.
Lifegoezon Posted February 8, 2014 Posted February 8, 2014 15 days. Still think about him all the time. Sometimes I'm thinking what a b*****d he is. Sometimes I'm hoping he'll do the 180. Mostly a little better every day but Valentine's will be tough I think.
Author herself Posted February 8, 2014 Author Posted February 8, 2014 You will never forget your ex if you loved her/him with all your heart, but you learn to live without them. I agree and that is just SO sad and yet so comforting at the same time. My biggest sadness is feeling forgotten & losing the friendship forever.
Author herself Posted February 8, 2014 Author Posted February 8, 2014 32 days today for me. Wenr to a bar last night we used to frequent thinking I felt strong and neutral....bad idea, really bad.
signal Posted February 9, 2014 Posted February 9, 2014 29 days no contact. Just checked here email (we both shared passwords - she hasn't changed hers) and found she's booked a evening out to a show in london and new jewlrey for herself for valentines night feb 14th. I'm around 10% healed as after 8 years this is still raw and a shock for me
confusedjan Posted February 9, 2014 Posted February 9, 2014 6 days, still twitter stalking, and 3 % healed :/
Tae Posted February 9, 2014 Posted February 9, 2014 I broke NC after about 50 days of NC. I feel so much pain right now. It hurts so much. I should NOT have txtd my ex, or checked ex's instagram. It feels rough to get no reply, and even worse to see your sex hugging and pretending to kiss someone else for a pic. And it is my birthday soon. I don't feel like celebrating it for the first time in my life.
realfriends Posted February 9, 2014 Posted February 9, 2014 To the people above me, for me, days 20-45ish were the hardest. It was rough, but once you make it over this bump, it gets easier(for me at least) and the fog starts to clear. Stay strong. Tae, sometimes you have to burn your hand a couple of times yourself before you realize to wear a oven mitt.
TheyCallMeOx Posted February 9, 2014 Posted February 9, 2014 I can't remember how long it's been since I started NC. To me, keeping track is just another thing to think about. I pretty much get rid of all thoughts. I'd say it's been a couple months and I never think about breaking NC, though. Sometimes I'll have good days and sometimes I'll have bad times, but I'd say that things aren't so bad.
Ruby Slippers Posted February 11, 2014 Posted February 11, 2014 I sometimes still have these little fantasy dreams at night that he'll come back to me (even though I broke up with him - twice!), and I wake up feeling sad and a bit pathetic. I had one of these dreams last night I went on my first date since the breakup last weekend, and I felt really sad afterward. I've been emotional the past week, leading up to and after that first date. I don't see romantic potential in the guy, but my emotional reaction definitely felt like another wave of letting go of the ex and moving on. And I think we both had a good time, and just going on the date fired us both up in a good way, overall, so I'm glad we went. I still think about my ex every day, and I'm looking forward to when that is no longer the case. Right now, it feels like it'll take forever to get over him and stop thinking about him - it's almost always during the subconscious times, like falling asleep and just after waking up, the times when my conscious mind is no longer in control. I rarely think about him consciously, and do not dwell on those thoughts when I do.
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