StillHurtin Posted January 21, 2005 Posted January 21, 2005 I am so sorry you are going through this. I know how hard it is. I was still in love w/ my H too and when he wanted a D. I was shocked! I know we didn't have the best of M but I never thought we would end up divorcing and seperating (that was when the A happened. A few months later he came crawling back to me). I didn't have much money either, I didn't know what to do. We got our income tax refund and he took half and I took the other and I moved out of our home w/ that money. My family was great support. My sister found me and the kids a house to rent. She sent me all the paperwork I needed to get on housing, food stamps, ect. You can do it, there are ppl who can help you get away. I honestly think you two need to be seperated. Isn't it he!! seeing his face every day knowing what he is doing to you and not giving a s***? And all the mean and nasty things he is saying to you. If you don't want to move out of your current place kick his a$$ out. I am so sorry.
ThumbingMyWay Posted February 4, 2005 Posted February 4, 2005 Des H Wife.... hows things?...was wondering about you today....
Adam Posted March 1, 2005 Posted March 1, 2005 Perhaps he's not cheating on you. In my opinion, the reason he didn't tell you he was emailing his gf is because he knew you'd think he was cheating on you. I think it's horrible how women are so quick to assume that their SOs are cheating on them. Once they suspect cheating, the woman will see anything the man does as "evidence" that he must be cheating, even when nothing is going on. Even worse is if a pissed off ex gf claims (i.e. lies) that she's been sleeping with him. The woman will almost always believe the ex-gf without question, and there is nothing the man can do to prove her wrong (since it is impossible to prove a negative). Usually, the woman will tell everyone that he is a cheater, even though he isn't. Everyone will believe her, and no few people will believe him. He is innocent, but he will be seen as a cheater for the rest of his life. This is a really horrible situation for the man, and again, there is nothing a man can do to prove that he didn't cheat. So, he has no defense. So whenever a woman tells me that her SO is cheating on her, I assume that she's wrong about it.
Hep Posted March 1, 2005 Posted March 1, 2005 How are you doing?? Have you decided to file for divorce?? I think if he has been such a jerk about the whole thing, he will continue doing it. You should hire "Cheaters". They will catch them both in the act, put it on television, and you will have real solid proof guaranteed. Good luck on whatever you decide to do. We are all wishing you the best of luck.. I am supposed to get married in May, but have given hard thought whether to.. it seems cheating is very common now days.... Best Wishes
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