soccerrprp Posted February 6, 2014 Posted February 6, 2014 Yeah, chances are it's some kind of fetish, perhaps this phase in their lives will come and go. What a worthless, insensitive BS thing to say. So, a fetish, huh? B/c she prefers black men, it's a fetish and not a normal, biological, desire or want? 7
Woggle Posted February 6, 2014 Posted February 6, 2014 Maybe she has some kind of fascination with black culture and it extends to who she dates. 1
joystickd Posted February 6, 2014 Posted February 6, 2014 . If that is how you feel so be it. My perspective stands. It's when a person hits a nerve that they react. My opinion with facts was not meant to harm. Stay well, we all have a place in this world. You totally don't get it. 1
Smthn_Like_Olivia Posted February 6, 2014 Posted February 6, 2014 I totally get what Joystickd is saying. Why be so concerned about someone else's preference? To each his own. I am myself half black/half asian. My father and stepfather were both black men. My mother, who is Asian, always dated/married black men. Prior to my current guy, I'd always dated black men and was married to a black man for 10 years. Now, at 37, I have no desire to ever date another black man again. I don't even look at them the same anymore and feel none of the attraction that I felt in the past 36 years of my life. For me it is life experiences and the person I have grown into. I can't say that I would never again date a black man, but it is very unlikely. 2
Tayken Posted February 6, 2014 Posted February 6, 2014 It works fine. I don't want for any attention, and do very well, thank you. Hmmmm...Yet you go through the troubles of signing up on a dating website, right
pickflicker Posted February 6, 2014 Posted February 6, 2014 Hmmmm...Yet you go through the troubles of signing up on a dating website, right I think you're having trouble comprehending my posts. Where is it written that those who have problems dating, cannot sign up to dating websites? I online date like everyone else, because that's where everyone is. I have no problems meeting men who fit my criteria. I date them for a few weeks, a few months, or a few years. And I'm having a fantastic time. 3
Tayken Posted February 6, 2014 Posted February 6, 2014 I think you're having trouble comprehending my posts. Where is it written that those who have problems dating, cannot sign up to dating websites? I online date like everyone else, because that's where everyone is. I have no problems meeting men who fit my criteria. I date them for a few weeks, a few months, or a few years. And I'm having a fantastic time. So am I love, and am having an absolute bloody good time doing it....Having being married, I can't see the point of even contemplating doing it again, when there is so much fun to be had dating
pickflicker Posted February 6, 2014 Posted February 6, 2014 So am I love, and am having an absolute bloody good time doing it....Having being married, I can't see the point of even contemplating doing it again, when there is so much fun to be had dating Jesus Christ, could you be more unintelligeable? How embarrassing for you. Have a good one.
Author irc333 Posted February 6, 2014 Author Posted February 6, 2014 Of course, this is the ONLINE venue, and more likely someone's going to put it all on "paper" here. I'll bet if she ran into a handsome , white man in person through friends at a party or some home warming get together or a game night, she'll probably be flexible. Online is a realm where people tend to be picky to a certain point, but people often do wind up with someone they didn't expect to be with anyhow. I knew of a lot of people that SAID they preferred one thing, then later down the road, wound up with someone not of those characteristics, even in marriage. So you can't completely put this in stone. 1
Keenly Posted February 6, 2014 Posted February 6, 2014 Of course, this is the ONLINE venue, and more likely someone's going to put it all on "paper" here. I'll bet if she ran into a handsome , white man in person through friends at a party or some home warming get together or a game night, she'll probably be flexible. Online is a realm where people tend to be picky to a certain point, but people often do wind up with someone they didn't expect to be with anyhow. I knew of a lot of people that SAID they preferred one thing, then later down the road, wound up with someone not of those characteristics, even in marriage. So you can't completely put this in stone. You are basically implying that you know what she wants better than she does. You've never met this girl. If I met the most beautiful 22 year old black woman id ever seen, I could acknowledge she is gorgeous, and have no attraction to her whatsoever. I bet its the same for her. Why is it so hard to just let it be? 6
gaius Posted February 6, 2014 Posted February 6, 2014 Having fun with stereotypes? The funniest part is that if you actually look through OLD profiles those are the girls that write they're looking for a black guy 99 out of 100 times. But you can't say that, it's stereotyping! People are so riduculous nowadays. Lets just be honest already. Trust me, if anne or olivia were lesbo and looking through female profiles they'd notice it too. 1
joystickd Posted February 6, 2014 Posted February 6, 2014 This is kind of a puzzler, and not to sound raciist, when I was reading this person's profile, she lives very local to me (for a change) and expresses she's Christian and seeks the same. I live in a rural area so she'd be seriously limiting herself. I'm just about to email her , when I noticed her Headliner saying "Black men ONLY apply". She's obviously a Caucasian woman as stated in her profile, but why ONLY that race and not her own? (or open to all?) OLD trust me if you live in a rural area your best bet is to stick to meeting women in real life. You may have to travel but if you really want to meet someone that is your best bet. An online profile can be a hard sell. Real life all you need to do if find a woman that will have a conversation with you. There are some you get numbers and ask out then there are some you just have a conversation with. The plan is to get women to see that other women give you some attention and that you seem to have some desirable qualities. That is a better sell than some words on a profile.
joystickd Posted February 6, 2014 Posted February 6, 2014 The funniest part is that if you actually look through OLD profiles those are the girls that write they're looking for a black guy 99 out of 100 times. But you can't say that, it's stereotyping! People are so riduculous nowadays. Lets just be honest already. Trust me, if anne or olivia were lesbo and looking through female profiles they'd notice it too. There is no problem being honest. Just had to bust your balls Lot of bottom of the barrel women on OLD in general.
MrCastle Posted February 6, 2014 Posted February 6, 2014 Yeah. That woman really should give white guys a try. Not enough white women out there who prefer to date white men, if you ask me. 2
jcrew11 Posted February 7, 2014 Posted February 7, 2014 This is kind of a puzzler, and not to sound raciist, when I was reading this person's profile, she lives very local to me (for a change) and expresses she's Christian and seeks the same. I live in a rural area so she'd be seriously limiting herself. I'm just about to email her , when I noticed her Headliner saying "Black men ONLY apply". She's obviously a Caucasian woman as stated in her profile, but why ONLY that race and not her own? (or open to all?) Did you try asking her? Its probably because she finds black men physically attractive and more pleasurable in the bedroom if you know what I mean. She might feel that white guys don't find her attractive or won't commit to her, and that she will have better luck getting a commitment from a Black guy.
jcrew11 Posted February 7, 2014 Posted February 7, 2014 Of course, this is the ONLINE venue, and more likely someone's going to put it all on "paper" here. I'll bet if she ran into a handsome , white man in person through friends at a party or some home warming get together or a game night, she'll probably be flexible. Online is a realm where people tend to be picky to a certain point, but people often do wind up with someone they didn't expect to be with anyhow. I knew of a lot of people that SAID they preferred one thing, then later down the road, wound up with someone not of those characteristics, even in marriage. So you can't completely put this in stone. I think she is looking for a footlong, her "ron jeremy" Just tell her you have a footlong and see if she responds back.
Author irc333 Posted February 7, 2014 Author Posted February 7, 2014 Did you try asking her? Its probably because she finds black men physically attractive and more pleasurable in the bedroom if you know what I mean. She might feel that white guys don't find her attractive or won't commit to her, and that she will have better luck getting a commitment from a Black guy. Actually, she's a rather physically fit woman, esp. for her age (50) and esp. for this area. But social circles tend to be mostly white even among friends in these smaller towns.
JDPT Posted February 7, 2014 Posted February 7, 2014 I'm Spanish and I prefer Caucasian women. Well you may ask "why not date a Spanish woman?". I've been there and done it to realize that what I prefer to date and have relationships with are Caucasian women. I'm not implying that there may be something wrong with all Spanish women, I supposed it boils down to preference.
escafeld Posted February 7, 2014 Posted February 7, 2014 Yeah, chances are it's some kind of fetish, perhaps this phase in their lives will come and go. Would you consider it a 'fetish' if she'd stated she only date white men?
escafeld Posted February 7, 2014 Posted February 7, 2014 Not necessarily. I get black men contacting me on my profile and I'm not interested. I'm not attracted to them. I'm not being racist, I'm just not interested at all. Same as Middle Eastern men. They contact me, I ignore contact. I prefer dating white men. It just is what it is. I haven't gone as far as putting it on my profile, because it's easier to just ignore contact, but I'm attracted to what I'm attracted to. Could your own preferences be regarded as a fetish though since you discount men who don't fulfil superficial criteria?
escafeld Posted February 7, 2014 Posted February 7, 2014 Actually, she's a rather physically fit woman, esp. for her age (50) and esp. for this area. But social circles tend to be mostly white even among friends in these smaller towns. Of course there's the possibility she's actually not serious about dating or a fake so states preferences which she knows no one in 'her' locality can fulfill.
escafeld Posted February 7, 2014 Posted February 7, 2014 Yeah. That woman really should give white guys a try. Not enough white women out there who prefer to date white men, if you ask me. Seriously? In my experience the vast majority of white women express a preference for dating white men...have a look at the racial preferences white women highlight on their profiles on such sites as match.com
soccerrprp Posted February 7, 2014 Posted February 7, 2014 Seriously? In my experience the vast majority of white women express a preference for dating white men...have a look at the racial preferences white women highlight on their profiles on such sites as match.com I think castle was being facetious and sarcastic. At least, I hope so, b/c the vast majority of white women, expressed or not, prefer dating white men and there's certainly no shortage of either. 1
escafeld Posted February 7, 2014 Posted February 7, 2014 I think castle was being facetious and sarcastic. At least, I hope so, b/c the vast majority of white women, expressed or not, prefer dating white men and there's certainly no shortage of either. I agree and thanks for clarifying Castle's post! 1
jcrew11 Posted February 7, 2014 Posted February 7, 2014 Actually, she's a rather physically fit woman, esp. for her age (50) and esp. for this area. But social circles tend to be mostly white even among friends in these smaller towns. Frankly, she just finds Black men more physically attractive. Any white male can say he finds latin women attractive, so why can't white women have their own fetishes. Plus, I'm sure she feels that a Black man would be more willing to commit to her, than a white man who doesn't want old women. Singles don't like being dumped, so they often choose ethnic women because they feel that being "white" gives them a higher social status, not to mention greater financial stability. But if she likes banging black men, then that's what she wants.
Recommended Posts