Ariduenas Posted February 5, 2014 Posted February 5, 2014 I met this guy a few weeks ago. He was introduced by my best friend's boyfriend. My friend told me he really liked me so I decided to give him a chance a started talking to him. We went on double dates with our friends and texted a lot. It was always clear that we liked each other. He was married for 4 months but that relationship didn't work out. He was definitely hurt after that and now he filed divorce and he's waiting on the papers. A week ago, almost two weeks he came over to my place and I had some people over. We tried having sex but it didn't really work out, and again it was made clear that we liked each other and that we where on the same page (HE SAID IT) After that incident he was acting very weird and wasn't really talking to me so I gave him space but after a few days I decided to ask him straight up if he wasn't interested so I could leave him alone. His answer was: "the more I think about it the more I feel I have to take care of my past before I can start something new" now he even told my friend that he really likes me but he wants to take care of everything before we start something. Thing is he's not really making any efforts to talk to me and it seems to me that he's not interested but I could be wrong. Any thoughts?
Silly_Girl Posted February 5, 2014 Posted February 5, 2014 It could be that he's not in to you. It could be that he's got feelings for his ex. It could be that he genuinely feels a need to tie up loose ends and deal with the emotions that brings. It could be something else. I don't mean to sound harsh but I don't think it really matters which of the above it is. He seems clear in his own mind about what he's doing. I like that he's not trying to string you along as he does so.
Tayken Posted February 5, 2014 Posted February 5, 2014 @OP..... the more I think about it the more I feel I have to take care of my past before I can start something new" now he even told my friend that he really likes me but he wants to take care of everything before we start something. Good thing the "sex" didn't work out because if it had.....then you won't have seen him again. It's clear that he was just trying to bang you, it was more of an infatuation thing that anything else by the sounds of it.......does he even know anything about you prior to telling your friend he "likes you"? You were going to be the rebound for his ex....I mean who gets a divorce after 4 months of marriage? Unless of course you are Britney Spears Listen: Don't go there
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