jj_999 Posted February 5, 2014 Posted February 5, 2014 Hi I started seeing a new girl a few weeks ago. She works a demanding job, but everytime we chat all I hear is she is exhausted or so busy. Last time we met she was initiating touching me and told me to call her. That was the weekend before the past weekend. I told I wanted to get together again soon and to let me know when she was free. She seemed really excited. Prior to our last meeting she was messaging quite a bit. Now she rarely initiates conversation. When I do text her she responds right away and always seems excited. I'm trying to meet someone else. How would you handle this one? Is she interested at all? What I did tonight was just say "I hear ya" when she said how busy her week is and told her I gtg. Would you ask her out again? How long would you give her? She hasn't even mentioned trying to get together. I think it's time to move on. Should I ask her what's happening?
D-Lish Posted February 5, 2014 Posted February 5, 2014 Someone that is genuinely interested in you will make time for you regardless of how busy they are. My ex and I worked opposite shifts and we just hung out being tired together. Next. 1
clia Posted February 5, 2014 Posted February 5, 2014 Just call her and ask her out for a specific day, timeframe, and activity. For example, "Do you want to have dinner with me on Friday?" Stop the washy washy "Lets go out sometime" and "Let me know when you're free." I think she got tired of you waiting for her to take the lead. Take charge. If she says no and doesn't offer an alternative, she's not interested. 1
StGeorge22 Posted February 5, 2014 Posted February 5, 2014 I agree with the other poster, call and give a specific idea rather than just lets catch up and assess it. If she doesn't say yes or give an alternative, then leave it. But nothing to lose by asking one last time. It's not like you have been asking and she doesn't even write back.
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