priaz Posted February 5, 2014 Posted February 5, 2014 i was under the impression a classmate of mine liked me, but now i don't think he likes me anymore. I thought he liked me because our mutual friends made multiple comments about us as a couple (i.e. me being "his boo/girl") which i pretended i didn't hear, asking whether or not i would go out with him, which threw me. I probably didn't give the response they were hoping for. I said "I don't know". There were also a couple other things I noticed in the beginning(i.e. he knew my name before I knew his, and would say hi whenever he saw me, I caught him staring at me a few times too.) We didn't really talk much since we're both shy, but now, we don't talk at all. Over break, we went to Knotts with a group, and I felt like he was avoiding me (he sat with everyone on the rides except for me, hardly talked to me, walked quite a distance from me)Now,I've noticed that he sits really far from me in class. It's like he can't stand me or something. He's never asked for my number and doesn't talk to me on social media. I'm really confused now. Did I do something to offend him? Does he not like me anymore? What's up?
StGeorge22 Posted February 5, 2014 Posted February 5, 2014 What time period was this over? I mean it's possible you are reading too much into this. Maybe instead of going thru your mates just go up and start a conversation. You will know either way then and won't have to do all this worrying? Believe it or not guys actually like it if a girl approaches them!
Author priaz Posted February 5, 2014 Author Posted February 5, 2014 Well ive known him for about a year, but the teasing didnt start until a few months ago.
TaraMaiden Posted February 5, 2014 Posted February 5, 2014 It's possible he knows nothing about these friends' interference and efforts to shack the two of you up together. maybe they were making plans behind both your backs but gave up. In any case, I wouldn't worry too much about it. As neither of you sound out of your teens at the moment, this is just not anything to get hung up about.
ExpatInItaly Posted February 5, 2014 Posted February 5, 2014 Why don't you initiate a conversation with him? Don't rely on others' antics. Maybe he thinks you are not interested in him, so he backed off.
Author priaz Posted February 5, 2014 Author Posted February 5, 2014 it's hard though, since i don't know very much about him. We don't really talk much to begin with. I really don't know what to say, and don't have the opportunity to say anything anyways, since he's avoiding me.
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