Door34 Posted February 5, 2014 Posted February 5, 2014 Hello. I'll start by saying I am in high school, so sorry if I come off like an idiot with my troubles lol. So, I am in a relationship with an awesome girl and we have been together for a year and a half now. I love her so very much and she loves me as well. However, lately we have not gotten to spend enough time together. We go to separate schools and Between school and work and homework, the time doesn't come easy. Now she has decided to join a sport on top of that. Track and Field. They practice for 90 to 180 minutes a day. Plus she will be having Track meets starting next month. So now our time has been cut even less. She does try and make time for us to hang out ,and go on dates, but its really not much, because she doesnt have the time. I don't want to be selfish, but it would be nice to feel a little bit like a priority. I will also admit that i do feel very insecure now as well. She will be with a lot of guys. Super Fit guys nonetheless. going on trips with them and stuff. I am not fit by any means. I mean I am not too out of shape or anything but still. So dwelling on the fact that shes always with jock dudes now is driving me crazy. All in all, I am scared for this relationship. I don't want to lose her. I know I am young, but I can honestly say we have an awesome connection and it depresses me thinking about losing that. Any ideas on what to do and how to stay calm? Thank you guys.
winny Posted February 5, 2014 Posted February 5, 2014 You have to accept the fact that all your fears might come true. And come to peace with it. And maybe they won't.. who knows... All I would say is, just be supportive of her and her dreams and love her and be there for her. Rest leave it to the universe...
Author Door34 Posted February 5, 2014 Author Posted February 5, 2014 I guess you are right, but it a depressing thing to accept.
Author Door34 Posted February 5, 2014 Author Posted February 5, 2014 Any other advice or words of encouragement...
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