DodgyDawg Posted February 5, 2014 Posted February 5, 2014 So after catching her looking at me many times, having 2 of her friends ask me whether I was "over" her and 6 weeks of no contact, today has left me quite confused. Earlier this afternoon a friend of mine knocked at my door. He asked me whether the rumours of me moving to another University Accommodation were true. I told him that they were but I also asked how he knew - I've only told my parents about it. He then tells me that last night my ex Girlfriend had asked my friend if I was, of course he didn't know at the time. Now I don't know what to think. I thought I had finally moved on since Christmas, I hadn't thought about her like I used to before. But after him telling me that, I wondered: "Why would she be bothered about it and ask a friend of mine, knowing that he would eventually tell me?" I would have thought if she were over me, she wouldn't care about what I was up to or anything, am I right? What do you guys think?
Never Again Posted February 5, 2014 Posted February 5, 2014 She's probably "over" the relationship. But cutting someone off, someone you cared about, it difficult just the same. She likely wants to know what's up in your life. She wants to keep tabs. Doesn't mean she wants you back, but you should tell your friend not to tell her anything. Let her experience life without you 100%.
pickflicker Posted February 5, 2014 Posted February 5, 2014 She's keeping tabs on you. She doesn't want you back, she's just being nosey. Don't give her anything. You're both talking through other people, it's silly. Just go about your business and if her friends come and ask you for gossip, shut it down.
Author DodgyDawg Posted February 5, 2014 Author Posted February 5, 2014 She's probably "over" the relationship. But cutting someone off, someone you cared about, it difficult just the same. She likely wants to know what's up in your life. She wants to keep tabs. Doesn't mean she wants you back, but you should tell your friend not to tell her anything. Let her experience life without you 100%. Right, well I thought that would be the case. I've caught her looking at me many times and then looking away when I caught her. I don't know if this is coincidental, but she always seems to be in the places I am. I was thinking of texting her, but after reading what you answered I reckon it's safer to get on with my life and not fuss over her.
Author DodgyDawg Posted February 5, 2014 Author Posted February 5, 2014 She's keeping tabs on you. She doesn't want you back, she's just being nosey. Don't give her anything. You're both talking through other people, it's silly. Just go about your business and if her friends come and ask you for gossip, shut it down. She's talking through people lol I ain't ... if I had something to say I would always tell them face to face and not expect friends to be couriers for venting my problems. She's done this before. 3 weeks back, on a night out, 2 of her friends came up to me asking whether I was "over her yet" ... Yeaaahh, as soon as I told them that I knew the girl I was dating told them to ask me it was obviously they were ... classic liars haha. But whatever. If her friends come, I'll just say that I'm busy.
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