foreverhurting26 Posted February 5, 2014 Posted February 5, 2014 Ill start by saying I met this guy 3 years ago, we completely fell in love.I was head over heels or so I thought. In just 5 months of knowing each other, I got pregnant with my daughter. While pregnant, I found out he was sleeping with 3 seperate girls, one being my best friend .. Anyway, I got back with him after and its just been downhill ever since. I broke up with him back in November and he moved out of our house. I then got into a new relationship, but I never worked out because I was still in love my ex. It seems no matter what I do, NOTHING works for me getting over him or trying to move on ... Please help
Ronni_W Posted February 5, 2014 Posted February 5, 2014 Hugs. Have you figured out all the things that this guy offers you, wants to give you from his heart TODAY, in present time, that you find so appealing and, or irresistible? Next. Are you worthy, deserving of that...or a whole lot more than that? Is it possible that there are other guys just as or even more capable of giving you what you want, need and are truly worthy, deserving of...and that you will not 'see' them unless, until you open your heart to include giving love to and receiving love from another? I do get that he is your daughter's father. But other than that, is keeping your mind and heart closed to every other but this guy in your own best interest for your own current and future happiness?
Scott Thomas Posted February 5, 2014 Posted February 5, 2014 1. Are you completely sure you want to move on? No chance of reconciling or dating him again? 2. If you do want to move on, it won't be easy, especially since you two have a child. Maintain NC, except when it comes to issues pertaining to your daughter, and continue with your life. However, I think it's very likely that you still have feelings for him.
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