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Ugg, What Now! I just want to move on...


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So, I've been officially single since Sunday at 4pm, a very VERY emotional time for me and my ex. It's been 2 days NC but I missed a phone call from her mom today. I don't think her parents knew about us having problems and about us breaking up. I loved all of them so much and now I can't stop thinking about her and her family and it's making me miss everything about her. I was having a fine day until I saw the missed call, now I'm wondering why her mom would be calling me? Usually when she did, it was to know if my ex was at my house. So I'm under the impression that they are oblivious to the situation....I had planned on calling this weekend because I know my ex will be there, so I had told her to tell her parents so that when I call to say goodbye to her family, that it wouldn't be a shock. I know she will be at home, but I plan on calling when she's not around, I know she has a driving lesson, so I would be calling when she's absent

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Do not call!!

 

Seriously, you are guessing her mum rang because she hasn't maybe told them yet. By calling, firstly you're opening contact again and secondly it comes off as you're looking for a reaction...don't do it.

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Yeah don't call. Just let it go. At this point you have no affiliation. If they call you again after this weekend then you can say goodbye. After she tells them enough will have been spoken for you and her family will know its nothing personal toward them for you not saying good bye. It happens. They are adults but first and foremost they are her parents

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