d0cholliday Posted February 4, 2014 Posted February 4, 2014 Hi everyone! This is my first post here in this section, I'm usually hanging in Second chance, which obviously won't happen So here is the thing.... First of all I'm single for about 3 months, and in NC, mending my broken heart, improving myself etc... I'm feeling OK, not that great especially last few days, but I will survive. About the girl... I noticed her noticing me in a study room on my college, she even smiled at me, but as I was recently hurt by my ex, now I have a fear of rejection. I had a chance to approach her, but I hesitated and chance passed. I didn't know anything about this gril, name, age, where is she from, nothing... So today I asked a girl who sat next to her if she knows her, cause she wasn't there today, she told me that she doesn't know her, but she thinks she is on a first year of college. So I started snooping around facebook, and I finally found her, after hour or so searching, yep I know it's creepy, but hey don't judge, I had to find out something since I am a coward... Good news she is single. Tomorrow I'm going again to study at college, and I hope she will be there... Please can you give me some advice how to handle things, I sent her request on FB, and If she accepts what should i do? Send her a message, but what to write? or if she doesn't accept me, if I see her tomorrow I know I need to make a move, but I don't know how. Thank you in advance.
Philosoraptor Posted February 5, 2014 Posted February 5, 2014 Use this as your opportunity to conquer your fear of rejection. The next time you see her, talk to her. If you still want to date her after talking to her a bit, then ask her out. You'll never win if you let the fear own you.
jaycee1 Posted February 5, 2014 Posted February 5, 2014 Use this opportunity to help get over your fears. Even if your shaking inside, act confident. Approach her tell her how she has caught your attention and had to meet her. Anything and if you can think of a funny way to approach her even better, cause that helps ease the tension. You act as someone you want to exude, you will become that person.
hasaquestion Posted February 5, 2014 Posted February 5, 2014 Grab a copy of "Karma Sutra" and sit down next to her. That will work.
Noproblem Posted February 7, 2014 Posted February 7, 2014 You shouldn't have added her on Facebook this fast! Anyway Talk with her normally, get to know her. If she's cool. You'll know what to do next
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