staryeyes Posted February 4, 2014 Posted February 4, 2014 Hi. I met this guy who helped me through a breakup from an abusive relationship. He was my rock through all the emotional stuff that went with it. He is there for me in everything I needWe started dating we have gone out many times and stayed in watching movies many times. He is in constant contact all day everyday. If I say I have an errand to do he says I will pick you up we will go. Anything I need to talk about he's there. But I have never encountered a guy like him before, its a welcome surprise but I need advise on him. He seems to be a veryslow mover. It took him weeks to give me a kiss goodnight. He still uses what I call the sneak attack if we are in the movies or restaurant or car the arm goes up on the back of the chair before slowely moving down to hold me. He seems to have to work up courage to hold my hand half way through the date.we did have oral one night while watching a movie when he started kissing my neck I indicated that and he kept asking are you ok though it.we haven't done anything more then that. I guess I am asking is this normal? Any advise knowledge or anything please BTW I AM 42 HE 46
BradJacobs Posted February 4, 2014 Posted February 4, 2014 Is he inexperienced? He's still moving slow after receiving oral? Or did he just give and not receive? Could it be ED issues?
Author staryeyes Posted February 4, 2014 Author Posted February 4, 2014 I don't think it's ed, he received he just did a little touching. I know it's been a while since he'sabeen with anyone or had a girlfriend
BradJacobs Posted February 4, 2014 Posted February 4, 2014 Do you need him to be more assertive or are you okay with taking the lead with things physically? He may be one of those guys who has faced rejection so many times that he has no idea what to do now. He also may never change. Best to air your thoughts on the matter before it becomes a bigger issue.
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