GabeCaken Posted February 4, 2014 Posted February 4, 2014 Some Back Story. (i've only been with 3 Lady's in my life, mainly because i can hold a relationship and not be a player with a lady's heart.) this girl i have been trying to get for along time now, who has been the center of my attention. has really been a tough journey for me. been up, and down, side to side with her. i'm about 99% sure she is emotionally unstable. we have done alot for each other, been there for each other. pick one another up when we have fallen. cared for each other more then friends should so on so forth i could go on. but we have never been in a relationship or had any friend only talks its more like a romantic forbidden love'ish. cause we also flirt hard with each other and do **** with each other no friend should. anyways, recently she invited a small few people over for a "Games night" we played some CaH (card against humanity) only about 6 of us. Her best friend and her best friends Boyfriend. Another guy shes been friend with for awhile, and me. then another guest who came later which we work with. it was a good night lasted about 3 hours many jokes, some beer and alot of talk about lover's. She has also been texting this cowboy she likes during the night, but she did not invite him over to play. we made some sexual jokes which got alittle deep and also played "Never have i Ever". which also got alittle sexual. coming to the end of it all, 3 people left. Girl and her BF, and other guest. so i helped her clean up with the other guy who was there and we sat down to watch some tv. about half hour later she gets tired and said we can either crash on the couch or go home. i had work in the morning so i needed to go get my work clothes from home at which point i called a cab. the other dude was going to ride in my cab home to. Cab shows up, get my stuff on ready to go. (had an idea) Told the other dude to go wait in the cab. took some convincing but he finally went. once he was outside she proceeded to give me a hug, then i was like now is the time so i pulled back abit she looked at me. before i could do it myself. She kissed me! I'm shocked for like a nano second because i was going to do that, but i guess we both had the same thought. and continued the kiss. then she let go and said good night. and i slurred my good night back, she smiled and walked with me out. got in the cab and left. she then texted me a heart. and left me wondering. what do i think now, i'm so confused.
fujidabruin Posted February 4, 2014 Posted February 4, 2014 Some Back Story. (i've only been with 3 Lady's in my life, mainly because i can hold a relationship and not be a player with a lady's heart.) this girl i have been trying to get for along time now, who has been the center of my attention. has really been a tough journey for me. been up, and down, side to side with her. i'm about 99% sure she is emotionally unstable. we have done alot for each other, been there for each other. pick one another up when we have fallen. cared for each other more then friends should so on so forth i could go on. but we have never been in a relationship or had any friend only talks its more like a romantic forbidden love'ish. cause we also flirt hard with each other and do **** with each other no friend should. anyways, recently she invited a small few people over for a "Games night" we played some CaH (card against humanity) only about 6 of us. Her best friend and her best friends Boyfriend. Another guy shes been friend with for awhile, and me. then another guest who came later which we work with. it was a good night lasted about 3 hours many jokes, some beer and alot of talk about lover's. She has also been texting this cowboy she likes during the night, but she did not invite him over to play. we made some sexual jokes which got alittle deep and also played "Never have i Ever". which also got alittle sexual. coming to the end of it all, 3 people left. Girl and her BF, and other guest. so i helped her clean up with the other guy who was there and we sat down to watch some tv. about half hour later she gets tired and said we can either crash on the couch or go home. i had work in the morning so i needed to go get my work clothes from home at which point i called a cab. the other dude was going to ride in my cab home to. Cab shows up, get my stuff on ready to go. (had an idea) Told the other dude to go wait in the cab. took some convincing but he finally went. once he was outside she proceeded to give me a hug, then i was like now is the time so i pulled back abit she looked at me. before i could do it myself. She kissed me! I'm shocked for like a nano second because i was going to do that, but i guess we both had the same thought. and continued the kiss. then she let go and said good night. and i slurred my good night back, she smiled and walked with me out. got in the cab and left. she then texted me a heart. and left me wondering. what do i think now, i'm so confused. Hey Gabe, is this the same girl ("Bubbles" I think you called her) that you said you made some mistakes with back in October? Have you discussed each others feelings about friendship/ dating/ getting intimate; etc;.....
fujidabruin Posted February 4, 2014 Posted February 4, 2014 If she knows you are attracted to her..... She may have kissed you to see if you were gonna "float her boat" or man-up and get down to it..... Perhaps, she is looking for something casual and she is checking to see if you are available. IMO, I would get clear with her to see what she is looking for and then decide if it is what you really want as well. If not, look elsewhere and keep your distance unless being in the friendzone is cool for you.
Author GabeCaken Posted February 4, 2014 Author Posted February 4, 2014 yea it is her. still lost with this girl. unfortunately. but i feel i just should not give up on her. you know, like something is telling me not to. >.< i'm 19 and she is 18, but we were at her place and her parents were home. even if i wanted to i was sure as hell not going to try anything more then the kiss. her dad is a scary guy, and he owns a couple of guns. sooooo there is a good reason not to.
fujidabruin Posted February 4, 2014 Posted February 4, 2014 yea it is her. still lost with this girl. unfortunately. but i feel i just should not give up on her. you know, like something is telling me not to. >.< i'm 19 and she is 18, but we were at her place and her parents were home. even if i wanted to i was sure as hell not going to try anything more then the kiss. her dad is a scary guy, and he owns a couple of guns. sooooo there is a good reason not to. Ok so now we have some more background on your situation..... Have the talk with her about dating. Furthermore, get clear with yourself about how you would like to be with her before you enter the discussion.
Author GabeCaken Posted February 5, 2014 Author Posted February 5, 2014 im pretty good with her most the time, i don't really shy from her when i tell her things. so i guess you could say yea.
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