Keenly Posted February 6, 2014 Posted February 6, 2014 Well a lot of people do find me attractive thanks. Didn't your mother say if there isn't anything nice to say don't say it?. I believe I'm a pleasant looking girl to most people. Your opinion doesn't dictate how I view myself. I think you are misinterpreting what is being said. Also, to the " don't say anything if you have nothing nice to say " then how can you grow as a person without criticism ?
Fivekaday Posted February 6, 2014 Posted February 6, 2014 (edited) Leigh I would NEVER criticise a person for their physical appearance. Your lovely that is not the point I am raising. My comments about your photos has nothing to do with your appearance (I see why guys would go for you). I just feel on a site like this there is no need. Thats what Facebook is for. I guess I am wondering why post any photos on this site? As u see most posters don't. I won't go back and forth with you cause at some stage I actually want to be of help to you NOT to make you feel bad about yourself. I'm glad ur honest with you boyfriend and I hope it works for u as u are clearly a kind thoughtful person. Edited February 6, 2014 by Fivekaday
Author Leigh 87 Posted February 6, 2014 Author Posted February 6, 2014 Thanks. I still hate the notion of people telling me that find me unattractive. I was bullied for all of my schooling due to my crappy skin teeth and chubbyness.
Author Leigh 87 Posted February 6, 2014 Author Posted February 6, 2014 I seldom think of my ex, but we did have a very close relationship so I do remember him from time to time, which seems healthy and normal. I have actually done good since my ex - I went through a string of guys who used me for sex, and I am now much better at recognising the quality men. Even if my relationship doesn't last at least I picked a guy who is actually deserving of my love. Trust me, in this day and age, it IS quiet an achievement for women to learn from their past mistakes and actually start picking guys who are genuinely into them opposed to users who pretend to like them to get sex. I am pretty stoked that I have FINALLY at age 27, learnt how to weed out the guys who don't truly care for me. After my ex Andrew, I was really relieved to be honest once I got over the pain of the break up as I knew I was so much better of without him. I am still trying to make sense of why I was deluded and delusional when I was with my ex. I do see a strong pattern of women on this website who try to make things work with guys who show CLEARLY that they are not that crazy about them. So yeah. To me, it is some mean feet that I am not longer one of those women who settle for men who are not truly interested in them, only to be strung along for years until the guy meets a girl he is truly into.
guest572 Posted February 7, 2014 Posted February 7, 2014 I dont think it is always CLEAR at the time, although in hindsight it certainly is. And to onlookers it probably is.
Author Leigh 87 Posted February 8, 2014 Author Posted February 8, 2014 I dont think it is always CLEAR at the time, although in hindsight it certainly is. And to onlookers it probably is. Exactly! I was SUCH an idiot to continue with a guy who probably made it CLEAR AS DAY to all his friends that he just wasn't that into me.
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