DALIFAN Posted February 3, 2014 Posted February 3, 2014 So I have been with my boyfriend for 5 months. When we met each other, we both just came out of long term relationships and weren't looking for anything, but we knew we wanted to be together.. His previous relationship (lasted 2 years) wasn't a healthy one and he never really loved her (his words). She (A) suffered a lot because he was hung up on his first girlfriend (B) at that time. He broke up with his then girlfriend (A) one and a half months before he met me. From his friends I've found out that she was devastated and didn'T take it so well. She deleted him from facebook and all of their common friends too... Anyway... So yesterday my boyfriend and I were sitting on the couch and his phone rang.. It turned out to be his ex (A). She hasn't contacted him in any way since the break up, so he was really surprised and I was too.. He didn'T pick up then and called her back today. He told me that it was a really normal phone call.. She said that she just thought she should call him again and see what's up.. So they were basically just chatting for a little bit. I completely trust him.. but I find it odd, that she would contact him after such a long period of not talking, especially considering how hurt she was. I really don't mind him being friends with his exes, as I am too with mine, but I was just wondering... Do you think I have to worry? (That maybe she wants him back? or so?)
ExpatInItaly Posted February 3, 2014 Posted February 3, 2014 I also find it odd. Does she know he is with you now? Did he make it clear that he's in a relationship? Maybe she wants him back. It's his job to make it very clear to her that he's not available. I have to say, I also think it's a little strange that he didn't answer in front of you, and waited until the next day to call her back. Perhaps he was just taken off guard and wanted some privacy; I suppose I can understand that. Did you ask him why he didn't pick up when you were there?
Author DALIFAN Posted February 3, 2014 Author Posted February 3, 2014 Thank you for your replies! To be honest I didn't ask him if he told her about me. I presume she didn't before yesterday (how could she... no contact). To be honest it took me a while before I told my ex about him, but my ex and I are on way better speaking terms than him and his ex. We were just cuddling on the couch and having a romantic evening at home, when the phone rang. I offered to leave the room and maybe go outside for a walk in case he needed privacy but he said no. He doesn't want to talk to her now, he'll call her back tomorrow. I didn't feel like he was hiding or wanted to talk to her in absolute privacy. I just think he felt awkward picking up the phone while I am sitting right beside him... especially considering he hasn't talked to her in half a year.. So you guys think it's odd?
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