rov Posted February 3, 2014 Posted February 3, 2014 (edited) Hi everyone, last year I started dating a girl I met on Facebook, we dated 4 times more or less. She is very attractive and also intelligent, I spent a good time when I was with her. What happened was that in the fourth date we went to the car cinema and there I holded hands with her and gave her a soft and short kiss in her mouth and she said to me: Oh that is cute. After the movie she acted weird and cold and a few days later she said that there was no chemistry between us. That was in April of last year. So yesterday after 10 months of not knowing anything about her I said hi!! to her on whatsapp and what was my surprise that she responded very very kindly, we started talking on whatsapp all the afternoon, she was interested in how my life is going and what Im doing etc. We send like 70 messages on whatsapp each of us, she also responded with enthusiasm the messages and fast. Today she will go to make an audition for an advertisement and she was nervous, so I encouraged her and told her that she is very intelligent and capable and that she should trust herself etc, she told me she was grateful for my support and sent me like 10 happy faces etc, I told here that I would her to let me know how she performed in the casting of the advertisement, she told that the will tell me when she finishes it. At the end I said that I was going to sleep and she told me bonne unit which means good night in french and some happy faces and moons, when I dated her she always sent me this kind of messages on the night. My question is: Is there any hope to date her again?, how should i play my cards?, should I wait some weeks before I say to her that if she would like to go for a coffee or dinner? I was thinking in making contact with her until Wednesday. Thanks!!! Edited February 3, 2014 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
PegNosePete Posted February 3, 2014 Posted February 3, 2014 Just ask her. Call, don't use apps or text or anything like that. 1
soccerrprp Posted February 3, 2014 Posted February 3, 2014 Just ask her. Call, don't use apps or text or anything like that. Don't wait. Ask her now.
Author rov Posted February 3, 2014 Author Posted February 3, 2014 wouldn't it be better to take it slow?, I am afraid that she thinks Im desperate for her. what do you think?
guest572 Posted February 3, 2014 Posted February 3, 2014 I agree with the above, forget about texts and chit chat. Just call and ask. Well, you have already waited a year so its not exactly desperate. If she declines it is not meant to be, at least you gave it a shot.
Author rov Posted February 3, 2014 Author Posted February 3, 2014 if I see her again would it be a good idea to ask her what happened that day when I kissed her?
Author rov Posted February 4, 2014 Author Posted February 4, 2014 I just said to her Hi today on whatsapp and she answered me very cold and without any interest. I don't know why two days ago she answered me very enthusiastic and interested in me and now she acts this way....
flightplan Posted February 4, 2014 Posted February 4, 2014 Oh for the love of god... grow a pair and ask like a man. She wants a confident man to take charge and be a MAN. Just reading your comments, it sounds like you're afraid to take charge because she might reject you. C'mon! Quit being a milquetoast! and step up to the plate with confidence. If she rejects you SO WHAT! move on. Your whole approach is just so weak and wrong, sorry but that's how I interpret it.
Author rov Posted February 4, 2014 Author Posted February 4, 2014 I asked her if she was busy and said that she had a lot of work to do, maybe thats why she answered that way to me. should I wait some days and contact her again?
Author rov Posted February 6, 2014 Author Posted February 6, 2014 she blocked me on whatsapp yesterday
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