Myz_Heavenly Posted January 15, 2005 Posted January 15, 2005 Hey guys! You've helped me out before, so I'm here again. I never orgasm with my husband without clitoral stimulation. I read somewhere that you can receive clitoral stimulation indirectly by having the male's pubic bone rub the clit. What I want to know is, exactly what position do we need to get into to achieve this? We usually try, um, different positions from the norm when having sex, with his favorite being with my legs wrapped around his neck. I don't think this position is going to achieve it. Any suggestions?
moimeme Posted January 15, 2005 Posted January 15, 2005 You're the best one to decide this by trying different positions out. You can also adjust your usual positions so that the two necessary bits meet. Obviously, having your legs around his neck won't work because that's pitching your clitoris towards your head instead of towards his pubic bone. I assume you know where those two body parts are so just arrange yourselves so that they meet.
Grover Posted January 15, 2005 Posted January 15, 2005 okay first off you will never achieve what you "both" want and need unless you are verbal with eachother. Meaning if something feels good you tell them that it does and vice versa. Secondly in my experience with women most all do achieve the "simple" orgasm thru clitorial stimulation, but no two women are the same, some need more some need less. Basically its alll about experimenting, afteralll thats how most discovered sex in the first place. Be patient with eachother and encourage and praise one another. Once you find what is comfortable for both go with it for awhile, but never stop trying new and exciting techniques and posistions. Lastly there are a number of "toys" for both of you to share together during intercourse, try them if you dont like them no harm done its all a choice. but once again the most important aspect of achieving true gratification is being open and loving eachother.
seahorse Posted January 16, 2005 Posted January 16, 2005 ...and you can always try this: http://www.womenshealth.org/a/coital_align_technique.htm I heard it's supposed to work wonders - haven't tried it with the bf yet.
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