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A friend of mine posted something on her facebook wall, quoting something that I commented on another post (the same day), but taking it out of context and it was sort of a "how dare you" type thing (not mentioning my name, but quoting what I commented on another post). When I confronted her, she said it wasnt directed towards me, said it was directed towards someone else "who said the very same thing" as I did. I didnt believe her (again she quoted some of what I said in a comment) and told her "let me see their links to their facebooks. She got upset, on the defensive and said we are friends and she shouldnt have to prove it. It ended up blowing up into a big thing, she said a bunch of other stuff that didnt have anything to do with the topic... yeah big huge mountain of a mess. Did I do the wrong thing in asking for links to the other persons facebook? Or was I in the right? What would you do if someone asked you to basically prove you were telling the truth?

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If I were in your shoes, I would have ignored it. Your friend is passive agressive and if she has a problem with you she should talk to you directly and privately, either through a message or by phone, or even face to face.

 

Now this situation is worse, as it was handled all wrong.

 

Meet up with her, find out what's going on and sort this out face to face.

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If she's publicly putting you down and also thinks you're stupid enough to believe her lies once she got caught, I'd unfriend her disloyal ass.

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