ksol9 Posted February 3, 2014 Posted February 3, 2014 Bf and I went through so much recently. From his accusations of me cheating, me moving out, lie detector tests, him creating so much emotional stress, I've somehow held on and so has he. We speak daily and see each other occasionally. Things are far from perfect, but we're committed to working this out. At least I am. I've done some foolish things, but I love him unconditionally. I think I've come to realize that I shouldn't be so self righteous. I've done my share of wrongs and when he reacts really badly, I seem to let his bad actions outweigh my wrongs. I begin to minimize my wrongs. I feel very guilty. We are at a place now where there is no trust. How do I begin to regain trust? We talk but things are so distant between us now. A couple days ago, I was so frustrated and angry. I needed time to reflect. I decided not to answer his calls. I called him back the next day...no answer. Since then, I haven't called him, but I've been getting the silent treatment. He hasn't called and I've gotten a few angry texts saying, "I'm done with you!" Just like I needed time I guess he needs his too. Sometimes I wonder though, is there any coming back from things like what we've been through?
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