dontgiveuponme Posted February 3, 2014 Posted February 3, 2014 Hello Everyone im very confused right now and i dont know what to do.I already posted here last time about my problem..Its about my fiancee who broke up with me 2 weeks ago..He blames it all in my attitude and he said he is not happy thats why he leave me and seeing girls for company to make him happy. Its also a long distance relationship and he just come see me every 6 months and stay 2 months with me everytime he visits.2 days ago he call me and wanted to reconcile said he will go back to his country soon and cant stand not to see me and he miss me so much. We meet for a coffee and talk about us..I ask him if he had any regrets and he said he dont have any regrets because he did what he thinks for him is right.And he never regret being with those girls that makes him happy while i cant .. We are both 25 years old and it hurts me because he only thinks of me when he is about to leave and go back to his country w/c he dont really like and he will feel alone there again.He also told me i need to think about what he said because theres other girls out there who is waiting and willing to be with him and he said he is not threatening me or being a big headed but just being honest. He is never like this before and ill say he change a lot..I really love him but i feel like he only needs me when he is alone or im scared he will dump me again..The problem is we are talking on fb and skype and also he is the one who pays my bills every month and its not that easy to find a job here at the moment so i dont have a choice right now.. I want to leave him for good but i cant yet coz of my financial problem and because i feel like im not ready yet to give up on him.. Any advice?i hate waking up in the morning and the first thing that comes in my mind is him and i miss him terribly that i start crying
Mr Scorpio Posted February 4, 2014 Posted February 4, 2014 You should do whatever you can to make enough money to support yourself. Where do you live? Do you have friends or family that you can live with? You should never allow yourself to be dependent on any man, especially one who is treating you the way this one is.
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