Infinity247 Posted February 2, 2014 Posted February 2, 2014 So I have been in a four year relationship with my boyfriend. We have been in the past through long distance relationships and have surprisingly overcome them. He's a wonderful guy in every way, and with time we have matured and improved many aspects of ourselves in the relationship. The problem is that a few months ago it was my turn to accomplish my postgraduate studies overseas (which he was the one who helped me get a scholarship). He's been really supportive, loving and more committed then ever. But ever since I started to get established in this new country and new life, I feel so different and confused about him and us. He even came to visit recently for the holidays, and even though we had a great time, it just didn't feel the same...I mean i miss him and all, but I dont feel like this madly in love urge that I used to have with him. I actually am curious about the whole aspect of being single here and have the no strings attached kind of thing. Plus there's this guy I met, whom I reallyy attracted to, and I know he is too, but he also has a girlfriend (and they live together!), yeah its a pretty much impossible situation btw him and I. However, I just cant stop thinking about him...I feel so confused and ashamed about these feelings I've been getting. And I dont want to act on some rash decision, since this all basically started when being apart...Im not sure if it is basically because we are far apart, or is it because we've grown apart ?
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