hea Posted February 2, 2014 Posted February 2, 2014 It's been just over three weeks NC and I'm feeling much better. It's so much easier, carrying on when I don't know what he's up to or what he's been doing. In a way it's like he's died, totally out of my life and NC has helped me realise he is no longer part of my life. But I dreamt about him last night, that he'd got another girl, so I've been thinking about him. I love him and always will, and I miss him terribly. Because I've not spoken to him in what feels like forever, it's like he's trying to remove me out of his life also. (Before the NC he would contact me on a regular basis, and stopped when I said I'd been on a date. He split up with me four months ago, so I thought as he was texting me telling me he didn't understand why we didn't work and that he loved me made me think he was regretting it). But he didn't come back and now he's cut me off forever. It's such a sad situation to be in. I miss him.
Inviv_girl Posted February 3, 2014 Posted February 3, 2014 It's been just over three weeks NC and I'm feeling much better. It's so much easier, carrying on when I don't know what he's up to or what he's been doing. In a way it's like he's died, totally out of my life and NC has helped me realise he is no longer part of my life. But I dreamt about him last night, that he'd got another girl, so I've been thinking about him. I love him and always will, and I miss him terribly. Because I've not spoken to him in what feels like forever, it's like he's trying to remove me out of his life also. (Before the NC he would contact me on a regular basis, and stopped when I said I'd been on a date. He split up with me four months ago, so I thought as he was texting me telling me he didn't understand why we didn't work and that he loved me made me think he was regretting it). But he didn't come back and now he's cut me off forever. It's such a sad situation to be in. I miss him. You miss him, that's normal. No break up is fun! we all in a heartache and bad situation because of it. We will all miss our exes!! what he doing after the break up is not our business anymore, whether only in a dream or not but he will see other girl, thats for sure and move on. You should do the same, move on... thats the only choice we have.
allikowski Posted February 5, 2014 Posted February 5, 2014 I'm so sorry I know you feel! It's seriously so hard and it hurts like hell! I hope that one day you will feel better, I'm waiting for the day to. :,(
Cakess Posted February 5, 2014 Posted February 5, 2014 Just keep reminding yourself that you do not owe your ex any part of your life anymore, and your time is too valuable to waste missing and feeling sad. Life is wonderful and you are alive! Experience life and discover yourself. The less you spend moping, the greater the opportunity for someone really special to walk in your life.
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