blueorange123 Posted February 2, 2014 Posted February 2, 2014 So I've liked this girl for a while. We start to get closer then i find out that she feels the same towards me. I ask her if she wanted to start dating, but she said we should just wait a little while. A few months later, I decide to ask again. She says that she still has feelings for me, but she also says that she wants a break from our relationship as friends for now, which confuses me (meaning she rejected me again). Should i just give her space and just move on? Or should i continue to pursue her after i give her some time off?
deathandtaxes Posted February 2, 2014 Posted February 2, 2014 A break from being friends? WTF? That's the craziest crap I've heard in a while. I would be so miffed if somebody said that to me. So insulted. I don't think she deserves a second thought otherwise. I wouldn't even talk to her after she said something like that.
ExpatInItaly Posted February 2, 2014 Posted February 2, 2014 Ouch. She doesn't even want to be friends now...why? That seems rather extreme. Could you shed some light on what happened before she made that comment? Don't pursue her any more. She doesn't feel the same way you do. It hurts, but you need to find someone who cares about you as much as you care about her.
Danger Posted February 2, 2014 Posted February 2, 2014 So I've liked this girl for a while. We start to get closer then i find out that she feels the same towards me. I ask her if she wanted to start dating, but she said we should just wait a little while. A few months later, I decide to ask again. She says that she still has feelings for me, but she also says that she wants a break from our relationship as friends for now, which confuses me (meaning she rejected me again). Should i just give her space and just move on? Or should i continue to pursue her after i give her some time off? She was basically looking for you to grab your ballsack. Don't take this wrong way mate, because this is going to sound harsh. When a woman likes you, you don't ask "would you like to date", you just invite them to join you out and let it escalate naturally. What you basically asked was "Would you like me to start asking you to go out with me?", which is about as unmasculine as you can get. You don't ask permission to hit on a girl, you should be able to recognize the signals that she is interested, and then you start inviting her to join you out at places. Women are looking for men to be men, that means not doing the "touchy feely" romantic comedy crap.
soccerrprp Posted February 2, 2014 Posted February 2, 2014 (edited) ... but she also says that she wants a break from our relationship as friends for now, which confuses me (meaning she rejected me again). Rejected again. Now she wants a break from the "friendship." She just told you that she doesn't care about you in either a romantic or platonic way. EDIT and further thought. The only reason I can think of her saying that she wants to take a break from the "friendship" is b/c you are making her feel uncomfortable while socializing, hanging out with her. I would imagine that you hang out together? At least sometimes? Do you act like a "friend" or a "friend who wants to be a boyfriend?" She may feel that you are trying too hard or smothering her? Possible? Otherwise, move on. Edited February 2, 2014 by soccerrprp
Thegreatestthing Posted February 5, 2014 Posted February 5, 2014 She's not interested ,but you know sometimes I just don't feel like being with anyone no matter how great the person is so who knows. So I've liked this girl for a while. We start to get closer then i find out that she feels the same towards me. I ask her if she wanted to start dating, but she said we should just wait a little while. A few months later, I decide to ask again. She says that she still has feelings for me, but she also says that she wants a break from our relationship as friends for now, which confuses me (meaning she rejected me again). Should i just give her space and just move on? Or should i continue to pursue her after i give her some time off?
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